poly may be tough, but so is monogamy. i'm sorry that things are hard and you've been running around in these circles trying to figure out why. that sounds mega miserable. :( i'm glad you have your livejournal to do this with, though. maybe it will help you figure things out? <3
i wasn't trying to be like: monogamy is hard! you should pay attention to that!
but more like: yeah, you are so right, but the most common alternative (monogamy) is rife with bullshit too, so you are probably doing okay.
maybe you understood that! i just wanted to make sure.
you are though; sooo right. my own personal tough-stuff relating to poly has mostly been centred around community type stuff. what kind of difficulties are you experiencing (if you're open to going into further detail)?
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i'm sorry that things are hard and you've been running around in these circles trying to figure out why. that sounds mega miserable. :(
i'm glad you have your livejournal to do this with, though. maybe it will help you figure things out? <3
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I might be having different issues if I was not in a poly sitch, but I would have hella issues for sure.
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i wasn't trying to be like: monogamy is hard! you should pay attention to that!
but more like: yeah, you are so right, but the most common alternative (monogamy) is rife with bullshit too, so you are probably doing okay.
maybe you understood that! i just wanted to make sure.
you are though; sooo right. my own personal tough-stuff relating to poly has mostly been centred around community type stuff. what kind of difficulties are you experiencing (if you're open to going into further detail)?
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