Invisibile disability

Sep 14, 2009 21:31

1. The disability I live with are ( Read more... )

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madrona September 15 2009, 06:57:30 UTC
"That because i am married and have held a long term relationship that i must not actally be aspie."

They really say that? *boggles*

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kaninchenzero September 15 2009, 13:09:17 UTC
They really say that. I was telling a good friend I thought I might have it, and her first reaction was "You can't have Asperger's, you're not an asshole."

Ow. Ouch. That hurts.

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kireishojo September 15 2009, 13:38:22 UTC
yeah the implication that because i have visible feelings i'm not. they don;t see all the effort that goes into being and trying hard to act normal.

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madrona September 15 2009, 17:07:49 UTC
"Wow, you have it, too?"

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karjack September 15 2009, 19:41:43 UTC
I feel hurt every time i fail to correctly gauge and respond in social situations. I worry that every time i fail in this it drives my friends and those i care for further away from me.

This did honestly surprise me, and in retrospect it shouldn't have. For what it's worth, I think you're awesome.

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kireishojo September 15 2009, 20:24:15 UTC
logically i know that this sort of thing wont be an issue for people i consider friends but emotionally is a different thing. I think you're awesome too.

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getting to know you. smittythesmith September 16 2009, 22:40:02 UTC
11. Regarding alternative treatments, I:
am willing to try almost anything once. although the friend who tried to get me to eat a whole bunch of cilantro to chelate found out that i do have limits on this.
I usually don't read the names before the content (who remembers names anyways?). So when I got to this part it was like, "oh! this is [insert friend's name here]!" You seem so on top of what's going on. For a while I thought your lack of awkwardness was one of those personality-type variations you get with this kind of disorder. I did not know that it was simply an apparent lack of awkwardness. Good job. :) Despite the fact that I'm not officially diagnosed, you and I seem to have allot of symptoms in common. Shame there's no room at aspie manor.

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newly diagnosed vikingcello September 20 2009, 05:45:28 UTC
You forgot Nick, he was newly diagnosed when you met him.

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Re: newly diagnosed kireishojo September 23 2009, 07:03:55 UTC
oh... i didnt know that

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