Comments | kirkrichard: From the day Joe wanted to bash my face in during Chorale

kirkrichard

From the day Joe wanted to bash my face in during Chorale

Feb 23, 2006 02:14

The following is an email Joe send to me...about some things that I have done, caused, and the like. The second part is my response to him. This is quite long. However, if at anytime you've ever wondered what I was really thinking, or how I really felt about things, this would be a good read...but give yourself plenty of time. Feel free to comment ( Read more... )

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joyaugustine February 23 2006, 14:55:50 UTC

I hope I'm one of those two people-- cause I'd miss the crap out of you!

Blah..

We must talk later--I need advice!

kirkrichard February 23 2006, 18:42:19 UTC

Actually, when I said "there are only two people I'd miss...and I'm dating one of them..." I was, in fact, think of you as being the other.

celbanto February 24 2006, 19:16:32 UTC

ouch...

musicalstars February 25 2006, 19:38:54 UTC

No kidding Nick...I feel your pain

beatlesrule69 February 23 2006, 16:43:48 UTC

It really doesn't involve Lindsay that much. I heard from several girls how they feel a little harassed. I'm sure you don't see it since it's all meant in fun. I used to joke around with Katrina all the time until I found out that I made her feel uncomfortable. I had no idea! She'd laugh like she enjoyed it, but didn't. As for you, I'm sure at some point, the girl enjoyed it because, like I've said, "Every girl goes through a Kirk phase." It's funny because it's true, practically every girl I know here has gone through a period of having a thing for you ( ... )

kirkrichard February 23 2006, 19:10:45 UTC

Paragraph 1 - That is what I need to know Joe, who is feeling objectified? who is feeling harrassed? Of the people whom I "play dirty" with, people such as Joy, Sara Andrews, Sara Buck, Van Horn, Kori from time to time, come to mind. I've addressed the VH situation, and as of this morning, Buck has told me it doesn't pertain to her, Joy I molest a lot, but she brings it back...same with Andrews...not as much, but we still tease. If i'm making someone uncomfortable, i need to address that on an individual basis. This is something that I can't just "not do." It is something that people have come to expect out of me on some degree, even if I was willing to, I can not change who I am overnight. Even if I tried...I'd be bombarded with a whole lot of "whats wrong ( ... )

big_tom20 February 23 2006, 16:52:34 UTC

Hey I really respect the way you addressed the criticism in this Entry. I know how it feels to want to be left alone, but it's also nice to hang out with people. Like that night that you, Kori, Tregan, Tabby Joe and I went to Mainstreet and sang Karaoke (I think that is how it's spelled). We should do that again, it was fun. Living off campus really hurt me in the fact that I'm not as close to people as I would like to be, but in the same mindset, I'm kind of glad I didn't live on campus because I did stay out of most of the Drama. I know that you probably don't think of me as a friend, but honestly I feel closer to you than I do 95% of the people on campus. You have always treated me with respect, and it's nice to have competition like you and Nick, I feel that we have a very strong section, and all of the basses that are now in Chorale have pretty good attitudes and I am grateful to you for all that you've done. If you ever need anything, just let me know. I know what a hard homelife can be. That is part of the reason that I live ( ... )

kirkrichard February 23 2006, 19:20:38 UTC

Hey Tommy, thanks for the kind words. I'm not going to waste your time by dragging you deeper into this fucking drama more than you could ever realize possible. I'll just put it like this. While I don't go around ranking my favorite people at Dana...other than Sam...she's first...February 11, by the way...I wouldn't be able to create a top 5 favorite people list without you on it, in the company of Joy, Sara Andrews, Sam, and...someone else...but i won't name names..just to keep people guessing.

I love being 300 miles away from this! beautifulquene February 24 2006, 02:24:52 UTC

So, that said, I'm going to put in my 2cents. Okay, so I'll admit off the top, I didn't read every single word. I actually missed a few paragraphs. So, if these things were addressed and my feed-back on this is totally off-base; apologies ( ... )