declare [your future] off limits to anyone who isnt madly in love with you.

[kisskicker]

last night i was talking to someone that i talk to every once in awhile... no one i know by name or face. just someone from online. and hes alright to talk to, ok to im with and soforth. he thought he liked me. he thought i was a wonderful person and so worthy of all this admiration and love and whatever he wanted to call it, and i kept

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[wilburthecow]

that was thought provoking. ill have to read it a few times before i really get it.

Whoa, easy, Dominique Francon...

[anonymous]

Kidding! Kidding!

Re: Whoa, easy, Dominique Francon...

[kisskicker]

dominique is my idol. mainly because she snagged howard roark.

[knaughtykoolaid]

I totally agree with you.

Sometimes people need a rude awakening like that to realize that the way they're living their life is pointless...

It is kind of futile to really like someone online, especially since you had no desire to meet him (am I correct in assuming so? I'm already an ass. ;-P) and... well, I don't know.

I think you were completely justified. And fuck whoever doesn't think so.

[cinder]

A lot of people think that being straight forward and honest, just means that you're 'arrogant and rude'. Most people are more concerned with what other people think of them, which leads to a lot of meaningless friendships.

I think it was good that he stopped obsessing on you, and it was good that you didn't play along and feed his obsession. I love it when people are honest :)

i thought very little of him because i think very little of compliments and criticisms...

Why do you think little of compliments and criticism?

I used to think like that and then I realized that by not caring what other people thought, it was distancing me from them. A friend of mine pointed out the difference between being hard and being strong. But that would be a long discussion which probably wouldn't fit here...

[kisskicker]

thanks for your comment. :) you always say the best stuff...

i dont know why i dont think much of compliments and criticisms... i think its because i dont need validation to go on living my life. theyre nice to get, and ill take them for what theyre worth, but in the long run what people think of me isnt going to mold me. its what i think of myself, and the only eyes i have with which to look upon myself are my own.

[thecocksmith]

All this introspection is extremely unhealthy.

Extreme Ops comes out on DVD Tuesday. Watch it, and you'll realize exactly what you're missing out on by doing all this navel-gazing. Self-actualization has nothing on guys who can make helicopters crash by launching their snowboards at them.