I've been the girl that didn't mention stuff she wanted before and was later unhappy about it. I didn't realize that all I needed to do was voice what I was thinking and I'd be happy but I think one day it just snapped and I've never done that again. I think in my mind if I was always suggesting things it would come off as being needy or whiny and I didn't want to become the burden. In the bigger picture, though.. it is no doubt for the better. If you laid it out to her like you did in here maybe that's what she needed to really realize what was going on and how to fix it. If she takes what you talked about to heart it should be easy to mend. Don't let it ruin what you two have. Now you can both be conscious of it and make sure little things like that don't happen.. at least as often as they have in the past. I wish you the best!
I've seen your little sister more than you lately! I picked up some shifts at cold stone and she's been in to see Danny. I miss you!
I forgot my lj password, so I cant fill log in, but you know who this is lol. Anyway, Im sorry that this is happening man. Its always shitty because it constantly ends up that way in any relationship. Noone wants to mess it up by saying whats wrong, when really, the silence is what will ruin it. I am extremely sorry that I didnt get to read this yet btw. Anyway, all I can tell you is stick to your guns and make sure you do what makes you happy. Just speak your mind and make things the way you need them in order to be positive about it. I love you buddy and I am always here for you. Just don't forget to look out for number one and call me if you need and help man. I will be here for you in everything you do for forever and a day. You still are and always will be my best friend.
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I think in my mind if I was always suggesting things it would come off as being needy or whiny and I didn't want to become the burden. In the bigger picture, though.. it is no doubt for the better.
If you laid it out to her like you did in here maybe that's what she needed to really realize what was going on and how to fix it.
If she takes what you talked about to heart it should be easy to mend. Don't let it ruin what you two have. Now you can both be conscious of it and make sure little things like that don't happen.. at least as often as they have in the past.
I wish you the best!
I've seen your little sister more than you lately! I picked up some shifts at cold stone and she's been in to see Danny. I miss you!
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And thanks for the advice! Useful as always
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