Grief.

Sep 12, 2005 21:43

I guess I never really realized how hard it is to try to be there for someone when they're dealing with the death of a close friend. I don't know what to do or to say, or whether it's appropriate to try to focus on something pleasant or grieve with them. It's tough with Peter because I can see how upset he is over Sebastian's accident, but I never ( Read more... )

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gryffindor81019 September 12 2005, 22:49:47 UTC
i'm so so sorry jenny.

something very similar happened to me in january, when my sister's best friend, carissa, commit suicide. i never know what to say when someone is that devastated... what do you say? personally, in dealing with this and helping us all cope with her death, i thought that either listening to greer or simply being there for her was best. also, when she was feeling up to talking about carissa, i talked with her about the good times and looking at pictures was always helpful, though extremely hard and made us both cry a lot. i don't know if this is helpful at all, i hope it is, but if you need to talk to anyone, ever, i'll be here whenever. feel better and know that everything will get better.

xxoo

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