Attachement theory

[kite_bitch]

Я вот, например, считаю себе приверженцем вышеупомянутой теории. Но не той извращенной ее формы, которая характеризуется грудным вскармливанием до седых волосых и совместным сном. Сама теория, если почитать столпов ее обосновавших в собсвенно теорию ничего общего ни с гв ни с сс не имеет. Интересно, правда?

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[ant_fugue]

It is definitely possible to practice attachment parenting without co-sleeping and breastfeeding, but breastfeeding and co-sleeping make attachment parenting more... elegant. It just naturally flows I guess. FWOW, I practiced breastfeeding, would have practiced co-sleeping if my daughter asked for it, but I am not at all an attachment parent. ;-)

[kite_bitch]

See, I think that the widely-accepted view of what attachement parenting is, is miles away from the true attachement theory. From what I read of your journal, especially when Valya was young, you ARE a parent very conscious of true attachement, which is hallmarked by respect of your individual child's desires and needs, availability of self or a mother-figure to child through young years, tuning in, if you will, putting child's needs as high as yours, at a minimum. That's attachement parenting in its textbook definition. Breastfeeding and co-sleeping - I don't know where it came from that that's a necessary part of attachement parenting. It's not. Attachement parenting is quite a bit more complex than that, and, quite a bit more powerfull. Babies don't become securely attached just because they are breastfed and sleep with their parents.

[kichiro_sora]

Ой, я помню, в школе знал пацана, который спал с родителями. В свои 14-15... Родители были порядком шибанутые, однако. Дико-дико.

[olkan]

Да:) Я, кстати, читаю по твоей наводке Attachment Parenting, медленно, но очень интересно.

[kite_bitch]

Наверное ты имеешь ввиду Rober Karen's Becoming Attached. Я рада, что нравится. Мне тоже было ну просто очень интересно. Достаточно странно было себя диагностировать до некоторой степени anxiously attached as opposed to securely attached to my own parents. И очень хочется, чтобы у моих детей со мной сложилось лучше.

[olkan]

Да, правильно:)

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[anonymous]

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