Happy-Shagging friends...

Apr 15, 2005 17:25

Can shagging your friends ever really work?

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joysilence April 15 2005, 17:05:09 UTC
Gnnaarrnnggn tricky question...I think it can work with a certain type of friend - the type you don't see too often! Otherwise there's a risk of things "developing", and if one person develops a desire for a relationship more quickly than the other it's a recipe for disaster. And I think in a small town like Exeter screwing your friends is harder because all the bored local gossips take it into their heads that you and the friend you're screwing are actually "dating", and spread the word until you're half married before you know it ( ... )

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Friends... matgb April 15 2005, 23:43:03 UTC
Yes, but approach with caution. Still friendly with a few of the friends I have slept with, but other times relationships were desired by one not the other.

Of course, it depends on how close the friend is, etc.

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funked_out_frog April 17 2005, 22:43:53 UTC
As long a both people are open and honest with themselves and the other, I don't see a problem, but also, taking responsibility is important too. If I liked my friend in a romantic way and she knew but didn't want to recipricate the romantic side of things and just fuck, I believe it would lead to animosity.

However having sex with some one you know, and trust. Someone you can be sure won't pass on an STD to you, or just because you both know you like scratching, hey it's all good.

I think some people worry too much about sex = romance. But sex can just be about fucking because it feels good, not because you want to form a strong emotionaly romantic bond with someone.

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funked_out_frog April 17 2005, 23:02:55 UTC
What makes you ask anyways?

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kittenfangs April 18 2005, 08:11:53 UTC
Hey froggeh,
I'm just curious to know what other peeps think. I've had happy shagging friends before and things have always been fun. I think I'll just go with it and see what happens ;-)

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