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Dec 29, 2003 14:45

I think i spend most of my time worrying about what others want and not what i want, and it's starting to upset me. As much as i care about other people and their feelings, i have to at least think about what i want once in awhile. I know i'll never make a decision that makes everyone happy no matter how hard i try, but not everyone can get their ( Read more... )

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rancidchiq December 29 2003, 18:42:57 UTC

It's hard to make decisions and only think about yourself sometimes without feeling like you're being selfish. But I think it's important to make yourself happy and not do things just because you want to make those around you happy, regardless of how it'll make you feel.
Keep yourself in mind man, you deserve the best.

in reference to your last entry... anonymous December 29 2003, 19:13:36 UTC

i think it just seems like you are begging people to say "stop erika, its okay, its not your fault, you didnt deserve it." now from what i heard it is, infact, YOUR FAULT. now that is not to say that you deserved it, but did the other people deserve it? it was your irresponsibility that caused this accident, not theirs. now as i just said, it was an ACCIDENT. I know how unbelievably frightening it is to be in an accident and you must have been all shook up, but maybe now it is time to stand up and take responsibility. fix the problem that you caused. i am grateful no one was hurt and i am sure that you learned a lot from what happened. like how big of a responisibility driving actually is and exactly how much we take for granted. i know when all is said and done you will be a better person, but i think its time to end the "woe is me" stage and do what needs to be done. best of luck, Sarah

Re: in reference to your last entry... kittie309 December 29 2003, 21:55:19 UTC

First off, do i even know you?
Either way, i'm not asking for anything, i'm writing down what i feel. Their just thoughts, that's all. People can say what they want to say on here, but i'm not asking for them to tell me anything. This is my journal, and frankly i can write whatever i want in it. I'm not trying to be bitchy but you can take your preaching else where. I really don't need to hear "it was your fault your irresponsible", because if you knew anything about the situation at all you would know that i'm paying for the damages myself. So please, don't tell me what i should and should not do, it's not your place.

Re: in reference to your last entry... rancidchiq December 29 2003, 22:52:14 UTC

People make mistakes.

in reference to your last entry... anonymous December 29 2003, 19:14:11 UTC

norevolution December 29 2003, 20:25:55 UTC

im there with you alot of the time. i think its what helps make me indescisive...im trying to look past that now...i want people to believe i am...but i dont know its hard. best of luck to you. you deserve to be happy. dont let others hold you back as hard as it seems.