Not your mom.
Although apparently I act like it. I have to figure out how to assert myself more firmly because I am really getting angry at a couple of people around me and I'm trying to avoid at least one of them because they make me tired. Because they just do what makes them happy and don't think of others. This is not to say that I think of others as much as I should, far from it, but I try not to make people pick up my slack or change their plans for me if I have a choice. It will make them tired. And I don't just assume that as long as I'm doing what I want others can work around me. I take responsibility for my actions and my words, even if it takes me a bit of time because I don't want to admit it's my fault.
I have to stop spoiling people by treating them that way when they won't even try to treat me back the same way. I have to learn to speak my mind even when it's not nice. And I have to learn to expect that some people will not be considerate and take that into account when making decisions.
Grah.
I have to stop spoiling people by treating them that way when they won't even try to treat me back the same way. I have to learn to speak my mind even when it's not nice. And I have to learn to expect that some people will not be considerate and take that into account when making decisions.
Grah.