The Full Story (or most of it)

[kittywonderland]

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[siani_hedgehog]

i don't think you are any of that stuff. she honestly just sounds like a small town girl who assumes she's always top of the pile.

[kittywonderland]

I can be pretty selfish, and I do whine a lot, but then again, who in my age group doesn't? It's post-teen angst, Natalie reckons. :P

And yeah, I bitch about people from time to time, that much is true, but again, I know a lot of people who bitch about people they know occasionally, it's not that rare a thing. I admit I should do less of it, and that I probably haven't helped my case by bitching about her on FB... that wasn't the smartest move, but then again, I only spoke honestly, and I said to her in my text that I wasn't going to apologise for it because I meant it.

All the things she's chosen to say about me are the things she knows I'm most sensitive about - and stuff like having a go at my writing is well out of line - that's completely besides the point. meh maybe I do suck a bit. The more I'm thinking about this, the more it's like I'm trying to convince myself. Maybe I am just a shitty person. So much for rational brain. :P

Awesome use of Post Teen Angst :P

[angel_clown]

Like I say, we're all subject to paranoia, self-analysing and freaking out. And we all tend to do it on the internets, lol :P it doesn't mean you're particularly selfish and whiny or self-obsessed or an attention seeker, it means you're a young adult and behaving exactly like the rest of us. You certainly are one the more stable and rational of us, especially judging by some status updates I've seen (no one here, just to clarify :P

[uberta]

I hear the same thing so often, that I never take an interest in the lives of others and only talk about my life. I actually haven't heard it in years, but I'm sure folks are saying it behind my back. In my case, I'm not sure whether it's true or not. I tend to lose friends like a bird molts feathers. Ah, well. Uncertainty makes life never dull.

You're nothing like the person Laura's poor writing described. Laura sounds like a manipulative little prick, the reverse of what a friend should be.

[moonpir]

lol, i say go you. you have faults, we all do. thats part of being human. You've admitted you can be whiney, just like i can admit that i smoke way to much and dont talk to people about problems that i have. Im much too introverteed for my own good.

but we can admit it. its people like her who are all too wiling to show other people faults and not accept any of their own faults.

she reminds me of my best mate stee. He hasnt seen me now in months and its the same kidna situation, except i can't cut him out of my life... ah crap, thats a story for my lj.

but anyway, im glad you're doing the rational thing, and im glad you're getting on with things now too. just dont go too far and become too rational and ignore your emotions :P Its the smarter, healthier thing to do. good on you!

*thumbs up*

:)

[anonymous]

Aw thanks sweetie. I'm really mad about the whole thing, so much so that it's 5am here and I'm awake! She's been my friend for so long and I've also just worked out that she hacked into my LJ, so yeah, that's nineteen years of friendship thrown away. Well done Laura. x

[kittywonderland]

That was me. Forgot to login cause it's 5am and my brain's asleep! :P

[wholepint]

Oh for god's sake. That's what LJ's are *for*, a space to let things out. Dearie me. And well done you, for not taking what she said to heart.