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kjo_024

PLEASE do this...

Sep 03, 2005 23:43

Alright.. So David told me to ask someone this.. So LiveJournal is where I will it. He told me to go up to some complete stranger and ask him these questions.. I need everyone HONEST opinion. Call me a baby.. Do it. It's what David thinks i am. I just need to know how you guys would react to it.

Okay here it goes..

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niftynic September 3 2005, 21:32:07 UTC

I'd be way bummed.. and confused. Why would he (who loves you) not want/need to talk to you everyday or even see you?? It doesn't really add up to me. I'd think that he would want to talk to you everynight.. he'd need to see you. It sounds like he's not putting any effort into the relationship. Which I would take as.. he obviously doesn't think it's worth it. I don't know.. you asked! Good luck with everything Kelli.. it could just be a small misunderstanding. COMMUNICATION IS KEY! lol

kjo_024 September 3 2005, 21:43:20 UTC

Alrighty.. There is one for me..

Yup thats the way i see it, David nope. He doesn't quite see it as clear as me. I told him ALL of what you just said. I can't say things more clear to him.

He tells me I'm overreacting, and I'm freaking out. Being a baby. I don't need to see him everyday. (yes I agree but 5 days!) He knows that if I don't see or talk to him for a couple days nothing is going to change. That's not the way i see it.. I read more into it I guess.. I think somethings wrong..

I jsut need to sit down with him I think sometime when he gets time adn figure out what relationship means to him. We are on differnt pages..

Question anonymous September 3 2005, 21:43:58 UTC

Who did this to who? Did you not call Dave or did he not call you?

Re: Question kjo_024 September 3 2005, 21:47:50 UTC

This is David not calling me.. & I guess me "over reacting" to all of this..

Re: Question anonymous September 3 2005, 22:02:21 UTC

He can call you whenever he wants to... now go make me a sandwich.

Re: Question kjo_024 September 4 2005, 09:20:46 UTC

okay.. alrighty..

clueless748k September 4 2005, 08:31:46 UTC

umm well im friends with both you and David, but um sorry to Dave, he needs to put a little bit more effort into it or else he better have a darn good excuse... how can you overreact about the person you love and want to spend time with, but them not wanting the same in return?? aww well im sorry Kel, i hope things work out for ya!! keep your head up and keep trying... that David Lee Goven is a stubborn one!!!
--Kelly

kjo_024 September 4 2005, 09:24:26 UTC

Umm.. Stubborn.. You hit that one!

See this is exactly what i say to him & he stil thinks that I'm over reacting about everything. I don't know. I call him all he time but I try to lay off I don't want to sound pushy or needy but Ahh when he doesn't call it irritates the crap outta me. But he thinks its alright, alright because nothing is going to change. Yeah I can see this time but i can't have little 5 day breaks and stuff all the time that will piss me off and make me say things I know I don;t want to say. I don't know all i do know is I'M FUSTERATED!

Thanks hun, I'm not going to give up on this either.. I know I'm doing nothing wrong. It's jsut a mess right now. <3 ya!

x_georgiegurl_x September 4 2005, 08:41:04 UTC

umm HELLO!!!!
boyfriend and girlfriend talk.. should be every day..
In my eyes he is fucking RETARDED for getting mad at you about it because what would he do if you did the same thing to him?? he would prolly react similar to that and if he didnt that shows that he doesnt care about you as much as he should which is BULLSHIT

Ive had this happen to me .. ALOT and so I know that if he thinks that you are over reacting about it.. than hes gonna think that you over react about EVERYTHING.

ughh... he makes me mad Kel.
but I love you so do what'cha gotta do. ♥

kjo_024 September 4 2005, 09:28:59 UTC

hay babydoll! Ü

Everyday huh... Yeah I think so too.. I agree very much!

When I ask him how he would react if this was turned around he gives me.. it would be okay because I know everythign would be alright if we didn't talk for a day or two or didn't see eachother. But to me.. yeah I'm a girl & i think alot more could be going on. I mean yeah I trust him, I trust him alot! But its the fact that I don't want this stuff to keep going on and on.

He thinks I over react about every little thing I can tink of. I'm a big baby to him I guess. I don't know he doesn't turn things around and see how I might feel about it.

I know he makes you mad.. but I gotta <3 him! Ü
i love you girly! muah!