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[klm112582]

Seriously! I know I havent updated in forever but I feel the need to tonight. I got out after a good day at work to hang out with friends I havent seen in forever. Everything is great! I love them all. Then I come home after 2 drinks. I used to be able to do more but it gets hard when you dont go out much. When I get home I check email and stuff. i

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[hippie123098]

I think adding her as your friend will only make you stronger. You'll get used to the idea and maybe after awhile you won't be so bothered by him anymore. And maybe when that happens, you'll realize that it wasn't really as big of a deal as it seemed at the time and you can let yourself find a new love.

My second boyfriend cheated on me, and it was a girl I saw all the time. But after seeing her so many times, I started to think of things more clearly... He was an idiot to cheat on me with her, and clearly I was the bigger person for NOT cheating and I thought about all the things I've learned from the relationship. Once I realized that, it was a lot easier to not let her get to me, to have the confidence to meet new guys, and to let myself get to know them because not all guys are unfaithful. I hope.

[calif_orchid]

I think adding her as a friend is stupid Kristie. think of it like this...You adding her as a friend is like ME adding Sarah as a friend.

and what would that cause?

drama drama drama and hurt hurt hurt...

welcome to my life, except that dumb girl doesn't bother me directly, her stupid boyfriend does.

Ignore her, you'll be less bothered by it.

[calif_orchid]

I have let him ruin so many things that could have turned into good relationships. I was so hurt that I can not let myself get passed a certain point with any guy without worrying too much about being hurt.

Only you can change that. you have to change your viewpoint, whether that be time or more inner strength on your part. but you are the only person that can fix that. not befriending any new gf's, not by hiding from it but from facing it.

You don't have to be nice to her. that's your past kristie. hanging onto it by any little thread isn't healthy. trust me, a girl that has been there like crazy, life is a lot happier if you ignore her and let the past stay in the past.

if you need a better example, just think of all the chaos that's going to happen when i'm in Michigan, that's a good enough of an example not to add her. ha ha

[outshined00]

yeah, im waiting to see what drama unfoils those weekends. oh my... we need lots of alchy and maybe even vanilla cigarettes. haha

[calif_orchid]

the three of us definatly need a date at bennigans or olive garden or some awesome spa to make some nice girl time away from it all. :)

[klm112582]

I think that I may even have to going you with the alcohol and cigarettes (or whatever) on those weekends too HAHA!

[outshined00]

"She thinks that it would be great to be my friend and get to know me cause the family still likes me so much even though it has been 3 years."

There's something fishy there if you ask me. I feel like their is an alterior motive and am not sure if you should play it safe and not add her, or add her to show you couldn't care less. It could be a can of worms or the girl can be genuine, but you already said she's psycho and that makes me wonder. I wouldn't get too attached to her with long emails and whatnot because that's a big mistake- trust me, I learned. Ask Crystal. ha.

Ultimately it's your decision, so you have to do what you feel is best. You can always add her being nice and then delete her or block her if she turns out nutso. Just don't let her make you feel bad like you do right now. :( it makes me sad...

On a lighter note, I can't wait to see you in 2 weeks. And then when Crystal flies in... that's going to be a great 2 weekends. :D

[outshined00]

on that note, if she is indeed psycho, i wouldn't add her.

psycho girls are all about drama, and if she's as psycho and slimy as the situation that lauren found herself in, then turn your back and walk away from her. if that's the same girl that's been trying to befriend you, that we saw at the mall that one time, then i seriously...don't bother. not worth the heartache....

[calif_orchid]

yeah, that was totally me. i forgot that i wasn't logged in. oops...

airhead

must be all that fresh California smog ha ha

[klm112582]

HAHA! That is sooo her!