about the sex and the sexual orientation.

[komeyama]

So, about sex and sexual orientation...
I think people tend to talk too little about it - Sometimes people tend to talk too much about it. Either way - I feel like talking about it sometimes too, whether it be too little or too much....
Anyway, sometimes I get these funny thoughts in my head, about sex. And I'm crazy-curious about people's sexual

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[miss_hiwatari]

I completely agree with you! And I'm glad that someone finally was brave enough to bring up this subject.

I consider myself straight, but I'm not going to say, "I'm never going to date a girl" because I judge people's personalities - not their genders. I just find myself being more sexually attracted to guys.
If I really happened to end up being with a girl (may it be kissing, dating or something more) I probably wouldn't even call myself bisexual. Maybe pansexual?

[komeyama]

I hope a few more people read and comment ^__^;

Actually, I don't consider myself bisexual either, I'd say pansexual - But that's cause I'd date anyone, regardless of gender - I'd date a transgendered person or a transvestite too :D XD

When I was younger, for a few years I considered myself straight, even though I had been with girls. I just felt like I wasn't going to anymore.
But things changes.
And really, it's about the person.
And basically, I get sexually attracted to almost anything XD

[thexness]

-points to you- You look straight 'cause you have hair and make-up on. GTFO.

Sorry, I can't comment anything serious on this, since I'm not in "serious mood" x__x
Maybe later ^^/

[komeyama]

it's not meant to be dealt with in a very serious way, so either way, it doesn't really matter..

[mckinder]

I completely agree with you too xD Seems like "bisexuals" girls are popping out of everywhere these days oO Hmm, but like you said, most of them are not really bisexuals *shrugs* I don't really know where is the point to be called "bisexuals" if the girl is not REALLY bisexual xD Blah...

About being tagged wrong... I'm straight (and to be honest i have never be attracted by girls, even though i REALLY love a lot of androgynous jrockers xDDDD) but a lot of people ask me if i'm lesbian ;_; LOL I don't know why... *shrugs*

(Sorry for my english, i'm very late so i don't have any time to check my mistakes XDDD)

[komeyama]

Exactly, yeah!

wha XD I don't know why people often think someone is gay when they're not XD
I think mostly straight people tag other people wrong.. mostly..
And I think some people have a very weird idea of what a lesbian look like anyway >_> hah...
I don't know much about other countries, cause in Denmark it's pretty much okay (and "normal") to be gay, but I know some places are totally "AAAH! HORROR!!" about it... And those kinda people tend to tag other people wrong more often..
Ah sorry, I wen't completely off there XDDDD :D

[girigiride]

As you probably know, I'm 100% asexual, and that's what I prefer to be tagged as (obviously). But it doesn't show in any way, like other sexual orientations tend to do, so people just naturally assume that I'm straight, or sometimes bisexual. Since I'm probably about 90% aromantic (or non-romantic, whatever you prefer), it doesn't really bother me most of the time.
I don't really care about gender. Actually, I don't think about it at all; I'll date people of any gender. But it does tend to be easier dating girls, because most of them aren't really that bisexual (like you said), and they're comfortable being with me then, because I don't want to have sex with them. In the end though, it usually turns out they're not as bisexual emotionally either, as they claim to be. I don't know if they're just confused and trying to figure themselves out - some of them probably are. But there's definitely a trend going on there too.

[komeyama]

I don't know much about being asexual, 'cause for me there'd be no point in it.
But I know how you feel about not caring about gender... And how sometimes certain aspects of a relationship becomes easier with either a boy or girl...
I tend to think sometimes girls are more difficult because they get worked up over nothing, but then, at least it's easier to talk about it with girls.. XD
But you're rigth - The trend is to be bisexual, psysically - But a lot turn out to be not as bi as they thought they could force themselves to be... >_>
It's lame, really XD

[miasachie]

I totally know what you mean with this entry. I still don't know who I am, what I am, yet, but I don't see myself as a bisexual. And just because I've kissed lotsa girls in my life, doesn't make me one :P

I think this entry rocks. Seriously, it got me thinking xD

[komeyama]

Exactly ^___^;
Hehe ^_^
I know what you mean :)

That's just what I wanted, for a few people to think..
Cause it's a fascinating subject, really XD