I am in the same boat as you regarding Ex's (I don't know how to act when I'm around them). I went through 3 girlfriends in the past year. The first one cheated on me halfway into our 2 month relationship. The second one cheated on me from the beginning. The third one told me she didn't have a boyfriend but had one and told me to F**k Off the day after winter break. I don't talk to my first ex. I talk to my second ex every once in awhile. We got over each other and are just friends. She takes me home whenever she goes home and I feel like going home. She sometimes stays over for the night in which those times I feel really awkward because I know she has a boyfriend but I can't stop her if she doesn't want to go home. She lives off-campus and the only friend she has at UCSD is me. Sometimes I wonder if she is hinting that I hook back up with her. I was thinking of joining a frat but there are no frat houses in this UC Socially Deprived school. In addition, it's a lot of commitment. Lastly, if I were to get a girlfriend again then I
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hey this Ex's boat is getting kinda crowded. Anyways, there is going to be some awkwardness after a breakup, but as long as you agree to be just friends then things will eventually cool down. The reason why Jason and I don't talk to each other is because he wanted a all or nothing relationship. Either I ws going to be his girlfriend or I was nothing. There's also the string of other people, but almost all of them ended on good terms. As long as you're happy with current situations with the new boyfriend, the old one shouldn't be a problem.
That Alpha Delt deal kinda scares me. My friend is pledging and I hope it doesn't screw him over.
By the way, how is it that we live in buildings near each other yet I never see you? Are we just not going to the same parties?
i guess i'll admit that i'm one of the few (close?) friends who still reads this occasionally. i'm also bothered by how i still dont know how to act towards my ex and vice versa even though its been almost 5 months since our breakup. my theory is that its probably because we built so much trust between each other during our relationship, and we broke up without ever breaking that trust. another thing is that the change was too drastic. before the breakup, not only was she a gf to me, but she was also my best friend who i can share anything with and we had so many things in common. now, its almost like we're total strangers having nothing in common. i think its still weird because we're aware that we know so much about each other and we still care about each other, along with the strong trust we built up, yet we're forced to hide those feelings. i dont know if this is something permanent or something i'm supposed to get over, but i feel like i'm more open with these feelings with my other ex's and thats why i'm still really good
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Anyways, there is going to be some awkwardness after a breakup, but as long as you agree to be just friends then things will eventually cool down. The reason why Jason and I don't talk to each other is because he wanted a all or nothing relationship. Either I ws going to be his girlfriend or I was nothing. There's also the string of other people, but almost all of them ended on good terms. As long as you're happy with current situations with the new boyfriend, the old one shouldn't be a problem.
That Alpha Delt deal kinda scares me. My friend is pledging and I hope it doesn't screw him over.
By the way, how is it that we live in buildings near each other yet I never see you? Are we just not going to the same parties?
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