Question:

[kourm]

How do you tell some one something that you know will tear them apart? And you know that everything will come crashing down if you tell them, but at the same time you feel like you're going to explode by not telling them?

Comments

[krystalkamback]

if its important, you just tell them and hope for the best

[knal03]

truth is truth, tell them and watch the world fall down. People always build the most beautiful things on ruins
~justin

[kourm]

But, the thing is, I can't tell. At least, not the people it reall concerns. My parents would die again, and my life would turn miserable. I wathced my mother's world fall down, and I watched her build her walls back up on wet sand. It's waiting to fall down, but when it does, it'll kill her, even though inside, deep down, she's already dead.

The other, I can't tell becuase it'll ruin what I have with the person. What I have is already on tenative grounds, and I just can't tell. I won't let what we have die, because without it, I'll be even more lost then I already am. So, in truth, I already knew the answer to my problem. Keep it to myself. It'll save a lot more lives that way. I just keep holding in...and never letting out. It's get awful tiring...

[knal03]

so you are afraid to tell them because you are attached to them... any person who can be destroyed by words is coveting their own demise... termination... let them linger under false pretense so that YOU wont lose them? It seems cruel to me.
peace
~justin

[kourm]

I'm afriad to tell them becuase I am attached, and attracted. I'm afriad that my attraction will prove too much of a uncomfortable issue and our friendship will slowly deterirate because the other person will become too uncomfortable with my attraction to them. Understand?