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Apr 26, 2005 20:36

Mmmh...just sitting here...enjoying me mug of cappacappaccino. I'm looking at this http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/ because it's interesting. It's got me wondering why I'm insecure about my body/appearance sometimes. Okay, more like most of the time. Yet, I guess I, like many ( Read more... )

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possani April 26 2005, 15:02:27 UTC
In my opinion, external appearances are not very important; they are only good for a first impression. The real important thing for me is how the person really is, how it behaves and so on. Of course, it’s nice to feel beautiful, but this is only a superficial thing.

Maybe this will help you: when you meet a boy, is it very very important how he looks? or is it more important how he is; how he acts? It depends of course on that you want the boy for, but if it is for a long time relation, I suppose you have to say for what he is. Well, it’s the same for everyone. The way you look outside will not matter after some few day of knowing you; but your actions and feelings will always matter. If fact, that’s why a person can fall madly in love with another even if they have never ever met.

They say the heart is blind... I believe it!

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the_blue_bus April 26 2005, 16:59:49 UTC
magazine models are intended to make you feel insecure about your body. especially if they're selling something, whether it be beauty stuff or cigarettes. the idea is, if i buy this product i will look like this. of course external appearances arent very important at all. i sometimes feel insecure about my appearance, but i eventually realize it doesnt really matter. besides, i cant really change it, and im as decent looking as the next guy, so i really have nothing to complain about.

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yaymatt April 27 2005, 06:05:36 UTC
totally.

television is not reality. magazines are not reality. they both make you feel like you are missing out on something RIGHT NOW, when in reality, nothing more is going on than your own reality.

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yaymatt April 26 2005, 17:48:09 UTC
when you are in love, the other person is beautiful. it's that simple.

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Thoughts are stupid sometimes =/ dramatic_mary April 27 2005, 04:40:51 UTC
I do feel like that many times...more than what i really wanted...but we have to stop letting ourselves go with those standarts, that are so fool in my opinion, each person was born like we should have born so we don't have to feel any less just because we aren't that super skinny and super tall, think about those people do u really think they are happy doing all those stuff to their bodies? I don't really think that...we have to learn how to "deal/work" with our bodies I mean we aren't less than those skinny people...at least I don't don't think that way! People like you for what u are inside, right deep in ur heart and they won't think any less of u coz u aren't skinny ( ur body is lovely =) TeeHee ) and you just have to wake up one day , look at the mirror and say "I'm who I'm and I'm happy with myself so fuck the rest !"
ROCK ON
Luvya loads sistie *mwahXx*

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aylah_fanafy May 13 2005, 15:28:17 UTC
You must believe that all those stereotypes they try to sell us at the present are a mere way of subsistance for capitalism.The appereance they show us is unachivable living a "human" live.
It´s a fact that looks,body postures and gestures direct the human relationships unconsciously but we should try to take over them using our brain.

All I want to say is : screw all the stereotypes,dare be yourself.You probably won´t ever be like those girls,and you know what,I believe that´s a blessing.People who blindly follow all the sterotypes show how shallow they are and how much they are not worth it.

Y ahora en español,¡a vivir la vida!

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