Does it have to be Inevitable?

[kravinmonkeys15]

Does it have to mean heartache? Why, after all that i do, all that i give, as much as i try, am i not good enough? Why am i not a good catch? Why am i the one with so many problems? And why am i at home crying

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Nikki~Poo

[anonymous]

Never let yourself think it's you that was wrong or not good enough. Cus trust me girl, when it comes down to it and if you want to compare yourself to chase...you WILL always be the better half, person, choice, friend...anything you want to call it. Well unless you talk about football and even that is questionable...haha..I love you girl and I hate that he's done this to you. Don't be like me. Don't end up so hurt and synical that you dont give anyone a chance...Because I can tell you that being alone because you're afraid to be hurt isn't fun either. Why can't there be a happy medium for us? Why can't we causually date and NOT get hurt? Is there such thing? Probably not. G told me last night that no matter what i do I'm going to get hurt...and i hate to say this, it rings true for you as well. No matter how hard we try or how long we cry...we, you or me, will face more heartaches. But damn if it isn't fair...Just know that no matter who the guy is, I'll never choose him over you. Yes, I'm somewhat friends with chase, but

Re: Nikki~Poo

[anonymous]

I SPELT CYNICAL WRONG!?!! Did you expect any less from me?? teehee

Re: Nikki~Poo

[anonymous]

I can tell you from experience IT NEVER GET EASIER...never. Dating is pointless. Its better to not put your heart on the line. Never let yourself get hurt, because everytime it gets worse and worse, the pain will not go away. It never does, and when you think your better and date again; when things go bad, not only do you have that pain but it brings back the memory and pain from past relationships. You have to be strong for yourself. Dont let anyone have controll of your heart. You can date, but the second you fall in love your just asking for the hurt. The definition of Love is Pain. Its will always be that way. I just wish someone could prove me wrong...Yours Anonymously