"i was constantly lifting you up helping you not take the consequences for your actions"
This is what you call being a friend? Genuine friends want us to become more like Christ. They look out for us and always want what is best for us. Our best friends are not necessarily those with whom we shop and play, but those who pray for us and lovingly guide us spiritually. They will speak the truth while risking to be liked in order to help. It is so hard to find a true friend as most people tend to reason through selfish motives. They are looking for someone to give them friendship rather than having interest in being a friend.
I wouldn't want a friend like you and this is only looking at one phrase of what you wrote. I couldn't imagine having someone simply tell me what I want to hear and not hold me accountable for my actions. You speak of trust... what trust do you have when the other person is unwilling to confront you with your actions so that you may learn and grow?
dont know if you got to be a jesus freak but i'd agree with everthing else. this is over this group's heads and wasted effort... there all stabbing eachother ... just look at how she wrote and waht else she said... it's like a kid... and beth did deserve to be blasted. You can be my friend though
You're taking what Kristen said the wrong way. What she means is that she was always there to help when I fucked up and pissed people off. That she didn't turn on me just because I screwed up (a lot). She didn't just 'tell me what I wanted to hear', but she also didn't rip me to shreds every time I did something wrong. And she DID confront me with my actions. We've had plenty of fights in the last thirteen years and pretty much all of them have been for the exact reasons she says - because I'm really good at being a ruthless insensitive bitch who causes a lot of drama
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i agree with beth. who are you to be the judge when i'm sure you only think you know about the relationship of beth and kristen. you need to take a step back and deal with your own problems instead of bringing them here to trash others buddy. when you've had your recess, then, come back and play nice with the other children.
These two girls have a history together that yall would have to know to understand each of thier posts. She is doing the RIGHT thing by speaking her mind finally. Its unfortunate that it has to happen like this but its been coming for a while and i give both girls credit for speaking thier minds and ending this. Just let it be everyone...
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take the consequences for your actions"
This is what you call being a friend? Genuine friends want us to become more like Christ. They look out for us and always want what is best for us. Our best friends are not necessarily those with whom we shop and play, but those who pray for us and lovingly guide us spiritually. They will speak the truth while risking to be liked in order to help. It is so hard to find a true friend as most people tend to reason through selfish motives. They are looking for someone to give them friendship rather than having interest in being a friend.
I wouldn't want a friend like you and this is only looking at one phrase of what you wrote. I couldn't imagine having someone simply tell me what I want to hear and not hold me accountable for my actions. You speak of trust... what trust do you have when the other person is unwilling to confront you with your actions so that you may learn and grow?
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