Tell me I'm pretty...

[krissythevixen]

Ok not really, that would be awkward and unbelievable anyway. I am a frumpy mom. I am always covered in food or milk or drool. When I'm at work I'm covered in product. I haven't had a haircut since before I got pregnant (which for those of you doing the math was WELL over a year ago). I don't know how to fix this. I just look tired and frumpy. I

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[hyperchinchilla]

I don't have any stellar advice, but I feel for you. I'm in a similar boat myself. I still have bleached parts of my hair from when I dyed it teal two years ago. Maddie is so much more demanding than Bre ever was (her status of sucker baby becomes more evident every day). She's not doing anything wrong or bad per say, but she's just higher maintenance. Doesn't like to be put down, and takes an hour and a half to go to sleep, that kind of thing.

That said, you can always poke at me if you want to vent. You know I won't judge you. Motherhood is hard, and it alters your identity and self perception in weird ways. Not always in bad ways, but in random and unexpected ones. It's easy to say that if you don't like the way you look/feel then change it, but the reality isnt so black and white. Try to cut yourself some slack if you can.