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[kristenmay5]

ok i hate this i tell u guys something that is hard for me to tell ya cause of the way u guys would react. but i do it anyways cuz u gus are my friends and i love u and i think u should know. and i dont' get any support from anyone at all. just because of his age everyone is like kristen no that's stupid he is too old well did it ever occur to you

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See, this is going to sound biased because it's coming from me, but i'll say it anyways.

[kamakazi70]

You want to go out with a guy. Fine, your friends, including myself will support you. He's a nice guy. Fine, your friends will be happy for you. He's 11 years older than you. Your friends see the red flag go up

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[sweetmichele]

1. Yes I tend to fuck up and the last one WAS NOT a fuck up so Bill that was really harsh and not needed to be put in LJ. You could've said that to her through an e-mail or an IM.

2. Kristen, I do support your decisions but I sniff something funny about this. I love you and that's why we all care. I just don't want anything bad to happen to you and I'm sure that the rest of us are thinking the same thing.

Re: See, this is going to sound biased because it's coming from me, but i'll say it anyways.

[kamakazi70]

Ok, i rushed into what i said and because of that i made mistakes. Michele, i apologize for what i said. I can easily delete that section, but i would rather leave it and admit my mistakes rather than pretend it never happened. To sum up what i'm trying to say is relax, take a step back, and look at what's goign on around you.

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[sweetmichele]

That's fine, at least you can be a man and apoligize for it. Don't delete it.

[pylon_boy]

my sister dated a guy who was 10 years older and he was a total ass one time i cought her giving him a bj in my room his dad was a racist, sexist pig and the boy ended up being one as well to this day my sister still takes her anger out on me because IM A MAN and so was he so he and i must be the same oh by the way i quote dated unquote a woman who was 30 years my elder and we had a good time doing it and nothing ever happened but all is fair in love and war is what someone smart said i don't see how that applies to anything here but i just felt like typing something that was really really long with no punctuation of any sort and only limited use of caps to emphasize something that really didn't need any enhancement at all anyway im out

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[pylon_boy]

oh yeah is his name adam i forgot his last name

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[kristenmay5]

ok not everyone is going to be like that not everyone is racist or a jerk and whether or not they are older dating younger does not matter u can find that in someone you are dating your age. those are just bad experinces. lots of people have them. u guys will just have to trust i know what im doing. as much as u dont' think so i can handle my self i would not get into anything i would be doubtful of.

Umm... Point of Order...

[schugshadey]

Now the only thing I see or hear about this was the previous post. And I didn't get an age from that. I thought, hey why not, life goes on. And I'll support you for it because I care. But my support isn't going to be it's full potential, because I tend to agree with everyone else that age does matter. Skipping the damn formula in my head... the younger you are, the smaller the age gap should be. Now because you're young, your age gap should be small hun. And 10 or 11 is NOT small. Now if you were 30 and he's 40. And it doesn't go the other way around. The youngest age takes the cake for the formula.

I'm happy for you, but I'm also worried. Since I haven't met him I can't tell you if he's more or less fucked up than he should be. But it's one of those things where I'm going to assume the worst. Please tell me he doesn't come with kids.

That's enough rambling... I'll come back to it later.

[sweetmichele]

Ok honey,

Sit down and read this. I was talking to Davina about this and she offered some advice from friends who were in your shoes. They wanted an older guy because they thought they were more mature and they know how to treat a woman, this that and the other, but then it turned out that they're just as stupid or immature as a younger guy hun. And it's not just bad experiences at all that most of us are telling you this. We don't want anything bad to happen to you. I do support you as long as your happy I'm happy, but honey, if it was me, you would be yelling at me too and you have in the past for numerous things. I get it's the whole "age ain't nothing but a number, it's what's in the person" which is true to the extent but Kris you can find guys that are younger around our age that can treat you right. You have to understand Kristen that we all love you and we're all saying this BECAUSE we care and not because we think it's stupid.

Who the fuck cares about any of this???

[rabidjosh]

People! Don't put your two goddamn cents in. It's her fucking life.

If she fucks up, she'll know it. If she gets hurt, she'll know it. If something bad happens, she'll know it.

Give her your fucking respect! Jesus! Just be there for her. Offer your help if she needs it. Don't offer advice that doesn't apply to her at all.

She's not fucking retarded, Jackie may be, but she isn't. Have any of your ever seriously talked to Kristen? Ok, so I haven't had any life changing discussions with her, but I've talked with her enough to know that she understands whats going on.

You're all acting like her parents, who obviously either don't know or don't care.

Good Luck Kristen. If you need any help, or if he turns out to be an asshole, call me, 773-454-4225. If you need immediate help, there's always 911. And if you just need advice, ask anyone you want to.

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[kristenmay5]

FINALLY someone who understands im capable of doing things myself. i have blonde hair doesn't mean im one.

Re: Who the fuck cares about any of this???

[kamakazi70]

I care, people should care to some extent

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[kristenmay5]

hey bill u fucking moron im not blind or a toddler. and guess what did it ever occur to you that i act oh say older then my age i guess you really didn't get to know me like u think u did. oh well that is your problem not mine. too bad for u.