I'm so so sorry, Katie. That is so incredibly dense and hurtful of him. I have to say, it sounds to me like he might have some issues of his own that he needs to work through that are part of the reason he personally isn't interested in sex, but it's an easier scapegoat for him to blame your weight rather than look within. So often, problems aren't actually on the surface, they're much deeper, but it's easier to find something that IS on the surface to blame. I hope that makes some kind of sense
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I am so sorry you are going through this! I don't even know where to begin. Can I just ditto everything Chrissy said? I just want to say I am very proud of you for going to the OA meetings. I know you mentioned you were thinking about going, so I am glad to hear you have gone. I really wish Michael was being supportive of you right now especially when you are trying to take steps towards working on things that are making you unhappy instead of making you feel worse. I do agree with Chrissy about looking into some sort of couples therapy to work on some of these issues together. You are an amazing person and I admire you for so many reasons and don't know where I would be without you in my life. I know you have been sad for awhile and wish I was closer to help you more. I feel terrible that I wasn't able to talk to you when you called last night, stupid work :( Just remember I am always here for you!
Katie, I'm so sorry to hear about all of this. :( You're such a beautiful person and it kills me to think that you're with someone who can't see that. I really appreciate you allowing me to see this post and for opening up like this. If there's ever anything I can do for you, please let me know. And please keep me posted on all of this. I hope talking about things with him will help somehow. Have you guys talked at all about going to therapy together?
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