I expected him to go on for a bit longer, and go into more detail, but really, that's the basis of it. Trust is the main issue. How in the world can Kurt ever trust Blaine again, especially since the jerk now has a crush or something on Sam?
I've never understood this thing about, "You cheated on me, but I still love you, so I'm conflicted." It's not just a matter of self-respect, but respect for the other person. If you can't respect or trust the other person, how can you still love them? That's dependency or fear or insecurity, not love. It's hard for me to accept that the Kurt we've seen on-screen all this time will somehow misinterpret Blaine's manipulations for love.
Yeah, I feel like it's "No, he cheated because he was unsure if Kurt still loved him", which is bullshit, they've been together for two years, he should know that by now. I believe he can love Blaine as a best friend again, but when you can't trust someone with your heart, how can you love them? He would just be too afraid it would happen again.
And, as you said, it's about self respect. I don't think Kurt would take him back because he respects himself too much. Besides, they aren't even 20. I find it ridiculus that they think the one guy they have been with since high school will be it, sorry.
I don't know, I've certainly "broken up" with friends when I lost respect for them or they hurt or betrayed me. And the cheating is likely to happen again. Look how easily Blaine turned to Sam. I think mainly it's because Sam is there, he's paying attention to Blaine, even if it's on a platonic level. Blaine doesn't love Kurt; he loves the memory of how Kurt used to look up to him and would defer to him and clearly adored him. That's what he misses, I think, more than missing Kurt himself
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Yeah, I've "broken up" with friends as well, but I believe that it's possible to get back to friends, even with trust issues.
It bothers me a lot that Sam suddenly just 'picked' Blaine over Kurt when Kurt and Sam had such a good relationship before he left. And, yeah, sam is good looking and extremely nice, I think anyone would fall for him. I think it's a bit annoying as well that Blaine gets to have his crush and all is dandy with that, but Kurt needs more time to get over Blaine before he can be with Adam.
As far as I know, Kurt is currently 19 and Blaine 18, but I'm not 100% sure. Their age is never really mentioned anywhere.
I know! Before Kurt went to NY, he had met only a few gay guys, and it wasn't strange that he got together with "the first and best", but, come on! Besides, Kurt with Adam is much better than Kurt with Blaine. in Klaine, it's like Kurt has to take care of Blaine all the time, make sure he has enough attention and all. The whole relationship bugs me.
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I've never understood this thing about, "You cheated on me, but I still love you, so I'm conflicted." It's not just a matter of self-respect, but respect for the other person. If you can't respect or trust the other person, how can you still love them? That's dependency or fear or insecurity, not love. It's hard for me to accept that the Kurt we've seen on-screen all this time will somehow misinterpret Blaine's manipulations for love.
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I believe he can love Blaine as a best friend again, but when you can't trust someone with your heart, how can you love them? He would just be too afraid it would happen again.
And, as you said, it's about self respect. I don't think Kurt would take him back because he respects himself too much. Besides, they aren't even 20. I find it ridiculus that they think the one guy they have been with since high school will be it, sorry.
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It bothers me a lot that Sam suddenly just 'picked' Blaine over Kurt when Kurt and Sam had such a good relationship before he left. And, yeah, sam is good looking and extremely nice, I think anyone would fall for him. I think it's a bit annoying as well that Blaine gets to have his crush and all is dandy with that, but Kurt needs more time to get over Blaine before he can be with Adam.
As far as I know, Kurt is currently 19 and Blaine 18, but I'm not 100% sure. Their age is never really mentioned anywhere.
I know! Before Kurt went to NY, he had met only a few gay guys, and it wasn't strange that he got together with "the first and best", but, come on! Besides, Kurt with Adam is much better than Kurt with Blaine. in Klaine, it's like Kurt has to take care of Blaine all the time, make sure he has enough attention and all. The whole relationship bugs me.
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