I'm not sure quite what to say about the rest of it. Ick...really ick.
No one likes condoms but it is highly disrespectful to not use one when requested. Some would even consider it a non-consensual sex act. I hope the two of you can work through it and that he really understands that what he did was very not okay. Any sexual relationship, especially those that begin to stray away from the conventional two person vanilla acts, needs a strong foundation of trust. There must be a strong respect for things like safe words and agreed upon limitations.
Ya... things are kinda weird. I'm actually kind of worried because I dont know what i'm feeling. its like, i want to have sex, i love sex, but i don't like feeling guilty afterwords, you know? I feel like i'm letting myself down for not making more of a stand, but part of me just wants to say fuck it, whatever, she was clean and he apologized, but then i get guilty again, and its a neverending cycle!!! Rarr!!
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I'm not sure quite what to say about the rest of it. Ick...really ick.
No one likes condoms but it is highly disrespectful to not use one when requested. Some would even consider it a non-consensual sex act. I hope the two of you can work through it and that he really understands that what he did was very not okay. Any sexual relationship, especially those that begin to stray away from the conventional two person vanilla acts, needs a strong foundation of trust. There must be a strong respect for things like safe words and agreed upon limitations.
Ugh...ick. I'm sorry.
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This week sucked balls. Big huge balls. of doom
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