I dunno...

[kylian]

Went to King Richard's Faire today. Enjoyed it as always...great shows if a bit more raunchy than usual, lovely costumes to be seen, bumped into some friends, it was really nice on the whole. As for Mark, the person I went with as a second date, I just don't know. He's really nice, but just painfully shy. Two very good friends of mine also went

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[ditribal]

i would say for one do not for any reason do anything you're not comfortable with. i was never one to fall for guys i wasn't friends with first (until i met matt) so i can totally see where you're coming from. i dunno, it just seems like a recipe for disaster to say you're more interested than you actually are. and if he's not willing to wait for you to decide, that's not a particularly good sign. i'd say even if you're not going to be romantically involved at the moment, you should see if he'd be willing to stay friends. that way he can feel free to pursue some more immediate romance while you have the time to get to know him better. if something sparks down the road between you, so be it.

[sarghi]

I gotta gree with Di on this one, as she's the dating guru. And also that she's right.

Do what's comfortable, and if you feel he's pushing you, then simply tell him you're trying to get to know him, etc, etc.

[jrdrnr]

Wow...it's like deja vú all over again.

You're an outgoing person. I know for a fact your family isn't bashful about asking questions (or running licence checks for that matter) while at the same time making you feel welcome. If he can't handle that or appears like he'll never be able to adapt and be comfortable with that...dunno how it'll work out.

[kylian]

Thanks for the support everyone...I don't know what's going to happen. We'll see, but I don't think it's looking too good at the moment.