I'm shocked.... according to the paper I actualy did something right against LaSalle Academy last night. Most digs on the team YAY, prob a mistake in the stats
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can you please accept the fact that you did well last night? every single person on the team made mistakes. every single person on the team is responsible for your loss on wednesday. no single person can take the blame for it. if you can't actually believe me when i say this (cause this isn't the first time) then how am i supposed to like... actually feel guilty about breaking that promise to you? i cant take your word if you can't take mine. sorry if im being harsh, but i think its ridiculous that you feel like you sucked totally last night. you didnt. no one plays on a volleyball team and plays a perfect game every night. even if you think you suck more than others, you didnt make all 25 errors in the game. how many other people missed serves? missed hits? passes? volleyball is a game of mistakes, and a mental game. if you get yourself down on silly points, you will stay down. you need to forget every second of every past game. you need to focus only on the current point. if you keep saying you suck just because you missed a serve,
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first off, being hard on myself is how i motivate myself, if i was absolutely horrible i wouldnt be varsity, and i ovethink, i admit that. HEY WORLD, I OVERTHINK EVERYTHING!!!! it is a flaw of mine, that i am working on addressing. and yes other people made mistakes, everyone did, Sadly mine tend to be in key moments, because i psych myself out with the pressure. About this whole dig thing, i know i had some, and i gotmost to the setter, i was actually quite pleased with that, i just dont think that i truly had the most ( i think it was brandon) but what i do, is put myself down, to motivate me to do better, only in a perfect game would i not be able to put my self down adn that isnt possible lol, and i am currently working on stopping that, while addressing the temper issue i have. I know there are other ways to motivate myself, and i'm trying a few ones out, but noone can change that completely overnight, and in alot of frustration i still revert to putting myself down. Just like i know you probably cant stop flat out right
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