Comments | lady_ame: I got accepted into Mass Comm but..

lady_ame

I got accepted into Mass Comm but..

May 15, 2006 12:48

My dad doesn't want me to go. He's probably worried about the cost but I can get a loan from the government and when I finish studying, I can pay it all back using my OWN money. Because the both of us was so angry at each other, we fought a little. And then he said if it wasn't for him, who else would find food for me? And I went and say so what if ( Read more... )

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red_planet31 May 15 2006, 09:20:13 UTC

I'll pray for you!! I really don't know what else I can do.

I'm sure your father loves you. Maybe if you discuss with him properly and tell him how much you really want to take Mass Comm. I mean, it's better to discuss this with him instead of yelling at each other because that would just make things worse. Umm... sorry if I sound like a busybody. ^^;

lady_ame May 15 2006, 16:19:23 UTC

Thanks~

Oh no, you don't sound like a busybody at all. ^_^ Yeah, I discussed it with him before but it always ended up in a heated argument. -_-; Maybe because the both of us has a very short temper. DX

red_planet31 May 15 2006, 18:17:16 UTC

What does your mom think about it? I mean, you can try asking your mom for help. I guess, since I don't know your parents ^^;.

lady_ame May 16 2006, 05:36:18 UTC

Well during the fight, my mum just keeps quiet and sometimes would ask us to stop, I wasn't thinking about my mum that time at all, I was mostly thinking about myself. D= She says she supports me going to Shah Alam, but sometimes she would take my dad's side on saying that I'm not ready yet to go there. T_T It's kinda confusing with her.

And guess what, I have to start form 6 like, tomorrow. DX I don't have anything ready yet because I didn't know it'll start so soon.

hunniebunnie May 15 2006, 13:20:49 UTC

Like red_planet31 already stated: Your father loves you.
I've had this problem too, because my father didn't like the idea of me moving out. The thing is, you've got to do what you've got to do to reach your own goals. No matter what cruel words you exchange with one another, you guys are still family. I suggest you talk it out with your father. Mass comm is obviously something you're good at, enjoy, and would do for your career. You have to tell your father that there is no other choice. Make it clear to him, but make sure you guys don't yell at each other. You have to shape your future, not them.

Good luck~

♥

lady_ame May 15 2006, 16:33:24 UTC

I guess so. Even if we are a family, I think he's too obsessed about his children becoming successful. Maybe, maybe not. I don't know, I don't understand him anymore.

Thanks~~

lebi_chan May 15 2006, 14:34:30 UTC

Even if you and your father fight and you go, he'll have to get over it. He can't control your life. One day down the road, he may look back on it and realize he shouldn't have been so hard on you and just let you do what YOU want. (I can't say for sure it'll happen cause I don't know him, but it's a possibilty.^^) Like red_planet31 and veronique_sama said, just talk with him about it. Sometimes I'm afraid to talk with my mom about important things, but I go ahead and do it anyway because it's what's best for me. So do what you think is in the best interest of you.

I'll definitely keep you in my prayers.

lady_ame May 15 2006, 16:43:37 UTC

I've tried millions of times to talk to him, he'd just turn everything upside down and start yelling, and since I have a very very short temper, I would get pissed off easily too. DX Even if I want to do things I want, I can't do it alone. I mean, it's a doggy dog world out there, I might need some helping hand. I guess I depend on them too much. Baka me.. DX

Thanks~~