my 3 favorite things siad to me while at work

[lady_bengal]

said by my coworker's husband when he stopped by to bring the baby for a visit

Comments

[demon_pet]

Thank you, my dear one.. for the encouragement. I don't think I "had" to have it, in order to go ahead and do it? But its been nice, having you forge the path ahead of me!

I do think its kind of funny.. I don't know how much you'd thought about it, before you and me discussed it so seriously? but you ended up going first!

So.. here we are - I have RIGHT at 135lb to lose. I would be happy with about 115-125..

This would put me between 135-150. Still a wee bit chubby.. but I think my frame would look better like that.
Its so exciting!

[lady_bengal]

hey, when we talked about it, there was absolutely no way my circumstances would have allowed it. My insurance would not cover even a portion of it, and my fianances weren't paying my rent, let alone for a surgery. I never thought my parents would have been able to pay for it either. For me, the surgery was just a pipe dream, never gonna happen.

and ya know what? When you get down to that 115 - 125 pounds lost and you just have that little bit to go, people will be telling you to stop, that you are skinny enough

Even if it turns out that I don't lose more weight at this point, I think I would be happy with the weight I am at. of course, if you are anything like me, it's just a little bit maddening to be so close to the goal weight and just not quite there.

[sin_kitten]

you are such a beautiful woman inside and out my amazing friend!!! HUGS