Comments | ladybug_dr: how should i feel?

ladybug_dr

how should i feel?

Aug 24, 2008 19:26

i'm very confused right now.

we may have to move.

when i was preggers with child #2, i had to be taken off work less than half way through. literally one week before i went off, we were served papers for a law-suit. what a mess. in order to hire an attorney, we had to re-fi. well, our ridiculous loan has gotten to a point where our ARM was ( Read more... )

moving, foreclosure, confused, mortgage, house

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dasenergi August 25 2008, 14:30:36 UTC

What a horrible situation to be in. I am so sorry. I have no idea how I would react if I found myself in a similar situation. I'd probably spiral into hopelessness. Good thing you're stronger than me, and have the will to fight it.

You're in my thoughts.

ladybug_dr August 26 2008, 00:55:55 UTC

"I'd probably spiral into hopelessness. Good thing you're stronger than me, and have the will to fight it."

believe me, i'm pretty hopeless right now. you only think i'm strong. the only thing that keeps me from closing all the curtains, putting on my jammies, and hiding under the covers all day, is my kids. i have to get up and take care of them.

you've seen the commercials about depression meds that mention, "depression hurts..."? that's how i am. my whole body hurts right now. literally, everything. my shoulders and back, my feet and ankles, even my scalp hurts. it's depression. i'm seeing my dr on thursday. i have so many other issues, but i know he'll want to put me on meds. that's NOT what i want. i don't want to be a zombie. i want to deal with my issues proactively, not just cover it up. i'm going to ask about seeing the chiropractor.

krismaez August 25 2008, 16:11:19 UTC

you are in my prayers - i dont even know what else to say, other than i'm praying for you, have in you in my thoughts, and am always there for you

ladybug_dr August 26 2008, 00:58:03 UTC

thanks. you know what that means to me. i'll find you on im when i get the chance, and give you an update.

love you!

ianlyzu August 26 2008, 00:04:02 UTC

*happy thoughts and juju your way*

ladybug_dr August 26 2008, 00:59:00 UTC

thanks, love.

dasenergi September 16 2008, 15:52:17 UTC

I've been waiting to hear status on the house situation. What's the news? I assume there wasn't an auction for your home on September 5th? What about the refinancing extension? What's up?