Selfish End....

[ladydagger2evil]

"Definitions of "pointless":

* not having a point especially a sharp point; "my pencils are all pointless"
* otiose: serving no useful purpose; having no excuse for being; "otiose lines in a play"; "advice is wasted words"
* lacking import; "a pointless remark"; "a life essentially purposeless"; "senseless violence"

Comments

[suriyel676]

:hugs:

[ladydagger2evil]

Thanx hun.... (huggz back*

[ne]

Hugs baby.
I've thought about it at times but I am too stubborn about things to ever actually do it and frankly all the bad has led to me being a stronger person.
Hell look what I have accomplished in the last year and watch me in this coming year grin.
We need to hang out even if I have to come kidnap your ass.

[ladydagger2evil]

We've all thought about it, well some of us, in some degree and have gotten to certain points in our life in varying degrees where the thought and option was very prominent and there

[ne]

Hugs
I can understand the frustration as I have had friends before and still do that tend to do the whole 'Im gonna..."
And yes sometimes they tend to forget that there are those that care about them a LOT but in the stuff that is happening to them right now they don't see that, not excusing just saying.
Hugs and it'll be okay.

[static_eddie]

I think you've echoed the feelings of many a loved one threatened by such a thing... strangely, the ones who do it, silently as you say, often earn a subtle respect from me... but it's the ones who wave it around as a form of emmotional blackmail, essentially saying 'somebody save me' that irritate me.

I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts today (more so than normal) and if you need to vent more please call...

[ladydagger2evil]

Exactly luv, you nailed allot of my sentiment, and how I'm viewing this and seeing him being, and my reasoning of the post.
And as I said in my comments to ne above why this all urks and upsets me (more so makes me angry, not sympathetic)

I'm so tempted to go up to Atlanta and have a serious sister to brother face to face talking with him, possibly a reality smack, and as one friend suggested on myspace have him a visit to a certain type of doctor...

And thank you on the thoughts, very sweet.. and I may call.. but I don't want it to be because me needing to vent over idiot boy....

[static_eddie]

the doctor thing is NOT a bad idea.
It might help him sort things out.

[ladydagger2evil]

It might... but in the past though it didn't seem to work, but maybe its just a choice in a proper good doctor that matters.
Too bad he's too old for boot camp.

P.s who is this?

[amul]

*hug*

They often say that suicide threats are a plea for attention, and this is clearly what is going on with your brother. Assuming he lives near your mother, I would suggest that you encourage your mom to spend more time with him, where they can both be honest about how they feel about everything going on in their lives.

Hopefully, this will make him realize how his attitude is affecting your mom, and also give him some of the attention he is craving. And hey, who knows, it may help bring them closer together.

[ladydagger2evil]

See it's not really anything to do with his bond with our mother, or why he is acting like this

[n3m3sis42]

I think suicide is pretty much always a selfish act, except maybe if you have a terminal disease where the natural progression will be so painful for you and those around you that it's a possible exception. Terminal stupidity doesn't count.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this. Personally, I think it almost sounds like he's just saying he wants to kill himself so he'll get attention and people trying to talk him out of it, but I don't know him and either way it's a way of avoiding responsibility. But he's your brother and I know you care regardless.

*hugs*