I think I am mostly amused right now that your sister and I are going to be all super knocked up at the same time. Hahaaa...at least I won't be alone in my pain.
Silly Paula... didn't you know fucking's what got you here in the first place? haha... ;o) Whatever you decide... do not decide without deep thought & consideration.
If you're in Washington & not on health coverage... DSHS is your next step. Medical & food stamps to keep you on your feet until you can secure a better job that offers medical. So many things can go wrong without the proper medical checkups. I am such an advocate for those that are able to work for their medical get their own but we need to get you to a place where you can.
Also... flying in late stages of pregnancy is not advised. The dad may need to come to you.
Being a parent is the hardest thing I've ever done. I wont kid you there... but thank goodness you're healthy & your full of life. You can do this if this is the path you stay with. You've got friends who love you (including me!) & we're here for you. I can always put you through baby boot camp too if need be. *grin*
Right now my hugest worry is where I am going to have this baby, if it will have dual citizenship, how this whole process is going to work now that I am pregnant...I am pretty damn nervous. I hope everything will work out but right now I am not even sure where to begin....I am in a pretty helpful community on here that might be able to answer some questions for me but...
We were both quite shocked at first and had our freakout already but now he has told me he is getting excited about it, and he has been super sweet and very supportive. I feel pretty lucky in that regard. Our plan at this point is to try to get my visitors visa extended so we can start the sponsership process...if we apply for outland sponsership ASAP it might complete before the baby is born. If not, I can at least legally be in Canada while it is processing and can have the baby here. Wish me luck that they grant me the extension!
Comments 7
Reply
Reply
If you're in Washington & not on health coverage... DSHS is your next step. Medical & food stamps to keep you on your feet until you can secure a better job that offers medical. So many things can go wrong without the proper medical checkups. I am such an advocate for those that are able to work for their medical get their own but we need to get you to a place where you can.
Also... flying in late stages of pregnancy is not advised. The dad may need to come to you.
Being a parent is the hardest thing I've ever done. I wont kid you there... but thank goodness you're healthy & your full of life. You can do this if this is the path you stay with. You've got friends who love you (including me!) & we're here for you. I can always put you through baby boot camp too if need be. *grin*
Reply
(The comment has been removed)
OY. Headache.
Reply
(The comment has been removed)
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment