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[ladykorana]

Well, it's over. After several weeks of internal debate and much talking with my mom and best friends, I broke up with the boyfriend today (if he was ever truly my boyfriend). In my heart, I never really considered us as boyfriend and girlfriend; he was just a guy that I was having fun getting to know and feeling things out for any chance of a

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[anonymous]

Jenny, I'm very proud of you to have done this the correct way!! You always have to give things a chance to see what can develop, and when it doesn't click, then it just doesn't click and nothing is going to change that. You made the right decision. At least you have a little more experience with the 'dating stuff' now...you can draw from this for your next guy.

You whore of a little brother....Jeff

[anonymous]

And I meant "Your whore of a little brother"....definitely wasn't calling you a ho!! Hope you didn't misunderstand that.

[ladykorana]

I knew what you meant :-)

Thanks for your support, Jeff. It means a lot to me. *HUGS*

[nerv_agent_001]

awww, i'm sure that this was rough and you know that i totally support you. but if you look at it as having experience to live and work off of, then it helps. also, WHEN THE HELL DID I FALL OUT OF THE LOOP?! sorry, it was just a big shock to see this and have no idea that it was happening in the first place, much less that it was over.

hugs!

[eowyngreenleaf]

awwwwww :( im so sorry to hear about that! (i just happened to glance through your LJ again--havent been here in a while) i broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago, and I had the similar problem. while i did have a good time with him when we were out doing things, when we were alone together it just--there was no chemistry between us. i just didnt feel right about being with him--so i eventually did what you did, and called it off. we'd gone out to dinner that night, and i ended up waiting until we were back at my place, so he wouldn't just up and leave me if he got angry. it's hard breaking up with someone, and it did take a lot of encouragement from my parents/friends to do it. but i definitely feel much better now that im not with him anymore--i havent spoken to him since. O_o

[ladykorana]

Thanks for your comments and your empathy! *hugs* I did the right thing. It's been 9 months since I broke up with him and I don't miss him at all. I'm really glad I never told him about my LJ either! :)

[eowyngreenleaf]

yw! :) i can totally relate. i never told my ex b/f about LJ either *G*. it's kind of sad, because I told him i would have preferred to stay friends rather than have a strong relationship, because of the fact that there was no chemistry--but i havent seen him in a little over a year now, so i do feel kind of bad. but then again, i think it would just be really weird if we happened to get together...especially with our past history as being b/f and g/f. i dunno. :-/ do you think i should call him one day, or do you think im doing the right thing by trusting my instinct?