I was having a really great day. I decided I wanted to grab burritos for dinner, so I called Jim to see if that was ok, but he was worried his burrito would be cold. To solve this problem, I hung out at panera till 5:30, when Jim said he was leaving work. All was good
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To put it another way: If you don't want to be the mother anymore, stop being the mother.
I do think it's just good manners to phone his mother and let her know what's up, though. If she gives you trouble, you can tell her to talk to him about it and put him on the spot or whatever, but acting graciously with his family isn't just taking care of him -- it's taking care of you. And if they have any brains at all, they'll figure out what's what pretty soon. (If they haven't already!)
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I really, really think counseling would seriously help. There's a communication problem, you're not willing to discuss what's wrong: "Jim insists on know what was wrong. I refuse, he's like clearly somethings upseting you so I explain.." , and he shuts down after you DO open up. Just think of it as preventing the situation from blowing up 100x worse.
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