Comments | ladylynxa: Yes I'm still around

ladylynxa

Yes I'm still around

Nov 03, 2006 07:14

I know I haven't posted in a while so here a new entry ( Read more... )

Comments 8

dilatedeyes November 5 2006, 03:20:30 UTC

Not to be rude but I don't know of any self-cleaning condos and your apartment wasn't clean, either! So it's not the size at all. Hire a maid.

ladylynxa November 5 2006, 15:47:50 UTC

I was suggesting a condo do the lack yard work, not the indoor cleaning. Most people I know who have maids (ok the 1 person I know) has her come in for light cleaning (Dusting, Vacuuming, etc), not the kind of stuff my house needs (Picking up clutter and finding a place to put it away). And even if we did want a maid to come in which we do not, my guess is it would be more then we could afford for the kind of cleaning you're thinking off ( ... )

dilatedeyes November 5 2006, 17:32:47 UTC

You can post whatever you want to, it's a free country! It doesn't mean I have to listen. People can have different ideas in life, but all that matters is the person whose life it is. So why get defensive about it?

You know you have a problem, so good luck in finding some way to finally correct it. Is that better?

dilatedeyes November 5 2006, 17:56:52 UTC

Also, the only "post about money" I can even think of is saying I want something completely unnecessary to own...? :)

nina_anne November 5 2006, 17:50:21 UTC

I've kind of gotten into this site lately. www.flylady.net

My cousin turned me on to it, and it's really helped me a bit. I overwhelm myself very easily so it's good that this makes you slow down and just take it a little bit at a time. :)

dilatedeyes November 5 2006, 17:57:31 UTC

I've showed her that site just as much as I've suggested hiring a maid. =)

ladylynxa November 5 2006, 18:59:46 UTC

The problem isn't not knowing what to do its finding the time/ambition to do it. I know the flylady has helped alot of people, I looked at it and at the time I did it just wasn't for me. Maybe I'll look at it some day in the future and it will be. Right now my problem is I'm having a hard time dealing with how tired having a full time job makes me. I'll learn to cope, I just need to make a plan and stick with it. I know what I need to do I just need the ambition to do it.

I find it easier to post about the stuff thats bad/wrong in my life instead of the good, so maybe it seems like I'm more down on myself then I am.

ladylynxa November 5 2006, 19:00:27 UTC

Thanks for the suggestion. I've looked at the site before but it didn't work for me, maybe I'll try it again another day.