the Romantic
Test finished!
you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR.
"I am unique"
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
- Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
- Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value
myself. - Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
- Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy,
I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. - Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!
What I Like About Being a Four
- my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep
level - my ability to establish warm connections with people
- admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
- my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
- being unique and being seen as unique by others
- having aesthetic sensibilities
- being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me
What's Hard About Being a Four
- experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
- feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
- feeling guilty when I disappoint people
- feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
- expecting too much from myself and life
- fearing being abandoned
- obsessing over resentments
- longing for what I don't have
Fours as Children Often
- have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in
original game
s - are very sensitive
- feel that they don't fit in
- believe they are missing something that other people have
- attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
- become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
- feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents'
divorce)
Fours as Parents
- help their children become who they really are
- support their children's creativity and originality
- are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
- are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
- are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele
The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages
You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose BY
Would you rather have chosen:
AY (EIGHT)
CY (SIX)
BX (NINE)
BZ (FIVE)
My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
You scored higher than 25% on ABC
You scored higher than 58% on XYZ
Link:
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32-Type Dating Test I finally submitted all my stuff for the writing competition today-
And had two tests.
I feel quasi relieved!
And now, to make plans for the weekend...I guess.
Nothing really to say, on this most auspicious of days.
*collapses*
Had philisophical arguement today...yay!
Made five dollars for tutoring Hally in Physics...yay!
Had World History today...YAY!
People like my changes to the film noir script...YAY!
I saw two of my old friends Carolyn Campbell and Georgia Brook from HC on the subway after I'd decided to
take the bus to Eglinton with Amy today, rather than going via Saint Clair West.
I'll try to unhermit myself this weekend...yay?
Ah. Oh the mundaneness of life.
I tend to complain that nothing "interesting" occurs in my life-
But when the "interesting" (read: not so nice things to deal with) occur...
I absolutely hate it.
I suppose it's the fact that we are never satisfied when we suffer from ennui.
Huh-freaking-zah.
But it feels like a slightly offbeat new wave funk song.
I've been getting into really quirky new wave-lately...just fits with my state of being.
Wootenany.
Oh my stars...
Yayness.
I get to see the musical soon, I honestly can't wait to hear Becky sing in it- I am fully convinced that she's going to be fabulous (and they kept my costume suggestions, even though I quit.).
It's almost March Break which fills me with such joy- I'm going to go on a sewing rampage.
...And now I have a philisophical discussion to go to...err...I mean guitar lesson.
Also, I am getting a Speaker's Union Hoodie (yes, I am a proud member of the debate club) as well as a Model UN shirt.
I am such a political keener, no?
But we've got to start on the book for Helikon...dammit!
So BSSers who want to submit stories/poetry/art/etc...plleeeease submit...*pointedly stares at Raven*.
Edit:
So my guitar teacher says:
"Oh I don't need advice from you, missy- I've had more ups and downs and experiences than you can even fathom?"
So I says to him, I say:
"I may not have had as many life experiences as you, but I can make a damn good cheesecake."
And we laughed for the longest while.
And life was good.
Tonight, I could see the stars outside.
I love staring at the stars-it reminds me of the finiteness and infiniteness of the universe.
I wish I could fall asleep in my backyard, but alas in Canada.
IT'S TOO COLD.