EEERGH!!!

[ladyplantagenet]

WHY???? WHY, oh why, oh WHY am I such a jealous, petty BITCH of a girlfriend???

I never wanted to be this way. I always swore I would never be one of those girlfriends. And now I am and I don't know why and I hate myself for it.

Why can't I just SNAP OUT OF IT?!?!?!?!?

Comments

[slyarchpenguin]

it happens to all of us...
no, seriously, i can tell how much you care about danny, so it's no wonder that you feel upset when you're distanced from him. if anything, this isn't you being a nagging, clingy girlfriend. this is you being both extremely concerned for him and for what's happening between the two of you. and why shouldn't you be? this relationship matters to you. of course, you're going to be a little obsessive over it, but you can't help that. your concern is on your mind, and you need danny to know that. he's the one you confide in, right? so it can be frustrating when he's not there to talk or when it's hard to talk to him, because he's the one you're concerned over...
i know things are rough for both of you right now, but just try to be patient. i think you both need each other right now.

[fiddlerwoman]

Ellie, demand some attention. Try to remember that you are a wonderful person, and anyone dating you needs to earn your love, not just take it. I'm guessing that you're holding up your end of the relationship, so don't blame yourself when he doesn't do his part.