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laesclave

Punishments & Life in General

Nov 12, 2006 21:44

Saturday was very interesting for a lot of reasons ( Read more... )

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thanks :) laesclave November 14 2006, 01:05:45 UTC

hopefully soon I will post a story...probably more fun to read than my ramblings about self-esteem and such!

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well, yeah! laesclave November 14 2006, 01:11:06 UTC

we should...I will be home this week, my Master will be gone. You should call me if you have time ;)

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Re: well, yeah! laesclave November 16 2006, 18:13:22 UTC

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mylordspet November 13 2006, 20:26:28 UTC

This is where I really wish there was a quote button like on some forums. I do like your use of the word "Justice" It is in many ways a justice of sorts. I never thought of it as such but it really does fit. :) My exhusband has been telling me for sometime that I need another sub to talk to at times. I keep telling him to introduce me to some of the subs he knows but he doesn't. If you ever want to talk hun I'm almost always around. You should be able to see my IM info so feel free to use it at anytime. :)

i will do that! laesclave November 14 2006, 01:07:04 UTC

i think it is a justice thing for me...but it is also an attention thing, and a point at which i need to stop questioning what he chooses to deal with and what he doesn't.

you rock! I always appriciate your support, dear.

lugmastro November 14 2006, 00:24:44 UTC

Cara, talk to these good people they can help you where I cannot. Your post was very accurate. As always I enjoy reading your thoughts. You are totally secure in our relationship. You are my Cara and understand what that means.

I will, Master. laesclave November 14 2006, 01:08:06 UTC

I think you are right that I need to talk to another sub.

Perhaps I will get in touch with ashley, too.

I am glad you like reading them, lj really helps me too.

I am ever so grateful to be your Cara, Master. It means the world to me.

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I think... laesclave November 14 2006, 01:15:03 UTC

you are right about finding what is good in our specific situation. I struggle sometimes with living day to day. There are people/situations that make it such that I am percieved to be his girlfriend (like with his mother) and there isn't anything I can do about that. But, honestly, I am not sure I would change that if I could. I like being viewed as his romantic partner. But, for him, I think, he would rather the world saw me as his slave and his slave only. That hurts me sometimes, but I don't know what there is to do about it. I think it hurts because, no matter what we would choose as our relationship circumstance, I do function in a capacity that is different than slave at times. yes, it is always an underlying dynamic...but my feelings for him are complicated and I want to be honored in the ways that a girlfriend is, even if that isn't the primary function of our relationship ( ... )

mylordspet November 14 2006, 01:57:27 UTC

I found this rather interesting because I never considered the bf/gf dynamic. It is something that M'Lord and I don't have. We are friends first and foremost but he would never consider me his gf. I'm his friend and his pet. So, I can see how trying to balance being a gf and a sub can be difficult. I think you're right though that you have to choose which one is more important and work from there. :) Thanks for the fewd for thought :)

*sorry so slow to respond* laesclave November 19 2006, 00:13:26 UTC

i try to respond to all comments left, but sometimes they slip through the cracks.

anyway...you are welcome!

i love lj for the fewd for thought--i get lots from you and others here.