They say.......

[lailasonlj]

"Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile.’

They also say.....

He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away. ~Raymond Hull

Comments

[klashfor]

I hope you know you don't need to edit yourself around me. I love hearing people talk about things they're passionbate about that I'm not. Sounds odd, but I do. Learning more about who that person really is.

You also never have to go along with something just because I like it. I'd rather you were just honest and we agreed we don't have the exact same taste. You still have everything I like in a person: kind, hilarious, generous, geeky, empathetic and interesting to talk to about so many different things.

I love you Miss Lails-I wish I got to see you more.

[lailasonlj]

Aww Flounder! You are the best :) Honestly....i know i don't have to edit or be anything but myself around you, and the same applies to you around me. Thank you for saying all that though you're awesome :) It doesn't sound odd at all that you like to hear people talk about things that interest them! Learning about other people is one of the best parts to life :)......i believe at least!

In truth though you should know, this post was never about you in anyway, hopefully you know that too somewhere :) You've always been a wonderful friend to me and i too wish i saw more of you! we suck! I love you too flounder! xxx

[foxrafer]

Very well said! It is a difficult balancing act, but just recognizing it and trying to think about it seems like a really good place to start.

[lailasonlj]

Thank you :) I'm hoping it's the right place to start! hope you're good :)