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[lalaloveme]

Sorry I haven't updated in a while....I have been extra extra busy. I am inlove with this guy, but he is still dwelling on his ex girlfriend. I just don't get it though because I know he is into me. He needs to get over her and move on. I am such a pathetic dweller

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[fcb_rule1]

well, i've been that kind of guy. The best advice is that you have to let him close the book with her on his own. If he rushes over to you too soon, then he may never get over her. He needs time to morn the loss. Though being with him will help the process alot. Just give him some time.

[lalaloveme]

So by being with him will help?
HAHA you have had alot of the same problems as me.
So you have liked another girl but you haven't gotten over your ex?
I thought you were getting back with her though?
I am just going to move on. I dont want to be hurt in this process.

[fcb_rule1]

Yes, don't push him to talk about it. Just try to make sure he knows that it's okay to talk about his ex to you. Because he needs someone to talk to about it, and you could really help him though all this. Plus you'll get to know how he thinks and maybe you can see if maybe dating him is a good idea or not.
When I start dating after my first relationship...I wasn't really over her. There were no good feelings left at this point for my ex, but it's just that I hated her so much for all the hurt she caused me. That's what I wasn't over, I had to get over that. But I'd just go on and on about how much I hated her. Which I don't think my gf would want to hear all the time. She wasn't very good in the begining, but she later learned to be good about it. That's what made things a little hard for me in early days.
Just be the good person, listen to him and if you really think he sounds like a great guy after it all, i think he'll def like you alot for listening to him.