I still love him...

[lanlilbit]

I'm so sick of not being happy. I cry non-stop, and nothing seems to be getting any better. I make myself sick from crying so much. I forgot what it is like to love anyone. I don't tell anyone I love them anymore. Not even my parents. I don't feel loved so why should I return it

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love

[anonymous]

Hello Lanlilbit. So sorry you are so sad. Try to stay strong. Tomorrow is another day and it is true that time heals. From my experience the answer is not to really fall in love until you are certain your love is returned. That way it is much less painful if it all falls apart. Try and stay more detached from the sitution. Like but not love until....

David

It comes and goes

[anonymous]

Hi, I'm sorry to learn you are going through rough times. I have been through heaven and hell and managed to survive. Yes, the scars remain, but after a while of misery, they are only proof of courage. Life hasn't been to kind to me sometimes, but then again it is always a tendency to complain when things are not going our way, and take for granted those few moments in which life is simply liveable.
Anyway, I hope things do get better for you. A while back, a woman broke my heart so severely that I promised myself never to love again....and so far, so good. Yet, it took years before I was on my feet again. So please, take it from someone who has lived to tell, it will pass. And come what might, don't lose that precious smile!
Best wishes,
Claudio Aliaga

You'll make it through

[anonymous]

Dear Lanlibit, reading your post made me very sad because it made me remember a few years back when I was at the very lowest point in my life. I was homesick, confused, completely heartbroken when my boyfriend left me for my best friend, and not too long before that I had gotten pregnant and lost the baby, and it just felt as though life kept kicking me while I was down. I was truly a MESS!!! And it took me a LONG time to get back to normal, to relax, to calm down, to start to feel like me again, even though after going through a tough time you are NEVER the same

[vampyrejuliette]

Just know that one day you will wake up and feel 100% better. I went through a horrible breakup and thought I was never going to be fine again. Years later, I don't even think about the past. I'm so sorry you feel this way.

Thank you...

[lanlilbit]

Thank you all so much! It put a smile on my face reading all of your comments. It's been 2 years, and sometimes I still don't think I'll make it, but I'm glad to know so many of you have been there and made it through. :)