Take a deep breath, look into the avatar, release, & imagine a warm tropical breeze on some remote beach as the sun sets over the water. Cold beer, a comfy chair, & the lil wavelets tickling your feet.
Now, you my dear are what is refered to as easy. Not skanky easy, unwilling to hurt peoples feelings easy. People can have a real annoying tendancy of getting used to you not saying no, then they expect that when you do say it you dont mean it. Start meaning it, dont bend, dont break, stand. You are strong enough, more than actualy. One of the stronger young women I have met. The trick is making a stand w/o making everyone you care about & who profess to care about you get all over-torqued coz suddenly they are the ones bending to your will.
*looks up with hazel eyes* Why are you right like 99% of the time.......I guess the annoying part is one by one I've been standing and I'm really finding out who is "true" and who is all talk. I thought there was an easier way of doing this you know....I thought I would come up with some easy way to make them just get the point.....*soft smile* what can I say a little girl still has dreams that need to have make believe right....*kisses you on the lips* you are an amazing person.....I am more than fond of you....I think that is why I stayed away for a bit....*blushes and lower eyes* It was like as we talked I developed this childish crush but I wasn't ready to admit that to you....well cause I thought I was a big girl that could not become attached.....*soft smile* guess I was wrong huh....*hugs you* thank you for being true....thank you for being you....thank you for putting up with my crap.....and thank you for caring when you never had to....i love you james....
Hey hun....one thing I have learned through Martial Arts, is you need to be a little selvish in life. Now don't take that the wrong way. Be selfish and take time to yourself to reflect and just be by yourself...even if it's only a few minutes. Everyone needs that now and then. You are a wonderful person and so brillant. Don't let anyone take that away or deminish it. Always listen to the people close to you, and accept the things they say, because they may have a different look on what is going on in life...even if it's your own. Listen, but don't forget to follow your own heart and mind on anything and everything. If you wish to say no on something then say no. If you wish to do something or want something...make it happen. You can only live this life the way you wish and want it to happen if you want it to. No one else can make it happen the way you want, and no one should also stop it from happening. Only you can make it happen. Do what you want to do in life, not what others what you to do or you think they want you
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*smiles warmly* Katherine.....I want you to remember this as well.....maybe we can both learn to follow what we want....*kisses your cheek* thank you....
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Now, you my dear are what is refered to as easy. Not skanky easy, unwilling to hurt peoples feelings easy. People can have a real annoying tendancy of getting used to you not saying no, then they expect that when you do say it you dont mean it. Start meaning it, dont bend, dont break, stand. You are strong enough, more than actualy. One of the stronger young women I have met.
The trick is making a stand w/o making everyone you care about & who profess to care about you get all over-torqued coz suddenly they are the ones bending to your will.
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