This winter seems to be going by pretty fast... Probably because I'm happy and enjoying life for once. Willow got a new home a few weeks ago. I miss her but I didn't have enough time for her
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the only reason i don't understand why you're getting married is because, what's the rush? why can't you guys just be together? what's so important about having the paperwork that says you're married? you don't have kids together, but if you did i would understand why you need to get married for financial reasons and for the kids. you guys don't have any money for a wedding either. you told lorin that i'm being really negative about this whole getting married things. but there's a difference between being negative and just trying to show concern. if i didn't care, i wouldn't even say anything at all. like i'm sure lorin didn't even tell you how she really feels, because for some reason she's afraid to tell anyone how she really feels about anything
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I agree. No point in rushing into things. You might as well just move in together and see how it goes first. Test out the waters of what marriage is like. Share bills, responsibilities of a home, etc. Plus the first few months of a relationship are always good and exciting, eventually things might not be like that.
also, i didn't know you were planning on getting rid of willow. it's weird because my mom just asked me if you were going to keep her because her friend wanted her really bad. she probably would have paid you.
It doesn't seem like you're showing concern. It just seems like you're judging me. Nobody can be happy for me. It's my decision and it just seems like you don't even give a shit about me anymore. I'm afraid to even tell anybody because everybody judges and can't just be happy about it. I got $400 for Willow, and se went to a good home. I just didn't have enough time for her and she deserved a better home.
i'm not judging you. i just asked you a few questions, and gave my opinion. in no way did i judge you. but if that's what you got from what i've said, then i give up. i can see you're being a little defensive, and i'm not really sure why. maybe no one can feel happy for you because they see this as an impulsive decision. hope you enjoy married life and i'm wrong.
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maybe no one can feel happy for you because they see this as an impulsive decision.
hope you enjoy married life and i'm wrong.
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