So, here I am on this lovely Tuesday morning. There are only two other people in the office, upstairs. I have the run of the downstairs. Muhahaha
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but that doesn't mean they aren't also good for you. I think all relationships are like that.
oh damn, lj ate what i had written.
you are one of my sanest friends I think... you are one of, if not the only (though I try not to think of these things, it's like accounting) person who I feel I can really share things with... not because I expect you to fix things, but just because I know you are there. solid, yes. that's it I think. not floating away like so many people, who I am always trying to catch like balloons and bring back to myself, or solid earth.
it seems you can never give the people you care about the gifts you really want to. to me that's the most painful part of friendship...
adam as candy... is a hysterical... and really fucking weird creepy image...
love (of the purely platonic variety kathleen ;) )
Hm, noting the superfluous use of "lol"s in that comment, I think rather than this being another person, perhaps I possess a secret alter-ego who likes to post comments on my LJ. And is also a lesbian. Which might explain why my mother and Kathleen (and everyone else) wonder. Damn you, bong-boy! I mean, pseudo(pronounced "psoydo")-evil (not because she's a lesbian, just because she's pseudo-evil) alter-ego!!!
devon loves laurie and recognizes her feelings and desires as fixer-helper behavior, the same kind of thing that devon's dad suffers from. fixer-helpers need to fix everything wrong in the lives of others and feel the desire to protect and safeguard other people. devon's father was the oldest of multiple children in his family and was the product of a fairly disruptive home and generally unhappy marriage. (sound familiar?)
I don't know that I *need* to fix everything, but I just wish I could. I know people need to solve their own problems; I just want to make it easier when I can.
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but that doesn't mean they aren't also good for you. I think all relationships are like that.
oh damn, lj ate what i had written.
you are one of my sanest friends I think... you are one of, if not the only (though I try not to think of these things, it's like accounting) person who I feel I can really share things with... not because I expect you to fix things, but just because I know you are there. solid, yes. that's it I think. not floating away like so many people, who I am always trying to catch like balloons and bring back to myself, or solid earth.
it seems you can never give the people you care about the gifts you really want to. to me that's the most painful part of friendship...
adam as candy... is a hysterical... and really fucking weird creepy image...
love (of the purely platonic variety kathleen ;) )
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Thank you. :)
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devon loves laurie and respects her
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I don't know that I *need* to fix everything, but I just wish I could. I know people need to solve their own problems; I just want to make it easier when I can.
(And, yes, just a lil' bit.)
Thank you, Dev.
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