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[lauraisabel]

I don't think I've ever had a "real shoulder to cry on" ever. I'm not a cry in front of people type of person, I guess that's why I love this journal for all my bleh stuff. But I could really use someone right now, someone to hold my hand, cheer me up. I've been going out with this awesome guy for some weeks, incredible actually, and I think I

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a few thoughts

[notallthere927]

I really wish you lived closer. :(

As for the guy, if that's the only reason (not to say it's not a big issue, but hear me out) if everything else is well with you two so far, don't do it. He just might wind up being your shoulder to cry on with out you yet realizing it. Give it more time, if he's good for you, he won't be bothered if he occasionally gets brought into it. In fact, it could bring you two closer. He could wind up turning into your rock that gets you through these rough times. Play it day by day, don't overly push all the rough stuff on him, but just gradually see if he's someone who will be supportive when you need it the most or gets frieked out with issues that don't involve him. You could learn a lot about his character and grow closer in the process.

I hope i'm making sense, i'm not saying to go out of your way to burden him and scare him off, but you might just chase away someone who is in your life for a reason and you don't yet know it <3

[erik3k]

nah, they are bitches! bitches i tell you!

you are neat

[gadoll]

my two cents is that you shouldnt break up with someone to prevent them from getting into something you're not sure they can handle. don't let yourself be the judge of that. talk to him about it. i know you may not want to, but you may risk ruining a good thing for no reason at all. Maybe he's willing to deal with a lot because he likes you a lot. I understand your reasoning behind it, very much so, but talk to him first.

oh and you don't scare me ;o)
miss you ♥

[sweetemmjay]

let it out here, that's what we're for.

Dont break up with an amazing man who treats you right simply because your fear opening up to him. I've done that so many times before, and it's almost always a mistake.

ilu