08/27/08 Note: This is something I wrote about a year ago in 2007. A lot as changed since then, but I still stand behind everything I said
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Amen, sister! hahah My views have definitely been turned upside down after falling in love with Kyle. Its really interesting...now after breaking up with him...theyve started to change again. ALWAYS accept people for who they are. Accept their differences, their perfections, and of course their flaws but never ever ever settle.
& always know, you can never change someone. You can simply push them in the right direction and hope for the best.
I like everything you said in this entry. Youve got a good head on those shoulders, girl! :)
i'm so so glad you agree and understand! i feel like a lot of my friends just don't get it, and it's so frustrating for me to watch!
I also agree with what you said about changing someone. So much of the time, girls try to change guys, but you can't do that. all you can hope is that you are a good influence on them and they decide to make that change on their own.
You're brilliant Ms. Bright! Really though, people need to realize all of the above. And the whole age thing bothers me. Like when people say, "I don't want to get married until 28." But you can't predict what age the love of your life will come along. Ohhh people.
the comment regarding sex being carnal rather than this romanticized ideal girls have today. of course it is romantic, well most of the time i hope!, but for some reason referring to it as it really is has become taboo for some reason. sometimes if you're lucky it's like a scene in a movie, and sometimes if you're lucky in a completely different way it won't be hahaha. ifff you know what i mean!
also, i agree with your statement on how relationships aren't meant to provide endless entertainment and happiness. i don't think i've ever doubted that, but i don't think i have ever actually thought about it. it's an interesting thought.
yeah like i know that sex can be incredibly romantic and lovely, but it's not always like that. only if it's with the right person. and it is weird how few people can be blunt about sex. and hahaha, yes i know what you mean ;)
I thought about that a lot. Like how people get bored with each other. I personally get bored with myself a lot. but if people can get bored with themselves, how can they expect someone to be eternally exciting and fun? Nobody is capable of that, or something. People set their standards too high.
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hahah My views have definitely been turned upside down after falling in love with Kyle.
Its really interesting...now after breaking up with him...theyve started to change again.
ALWAYS accept people for who they are. Accept their differences, their perfections, and of course their flaws but never ever ever settle.
& always know, you can never change someone. You can simply push them in the right direction and hope for the best.
I like everything you said in this entry. Youve got a good head on those shoulders, girl! :)
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I also agree with what you said about changing someone. So much of the time, girls try to change guys, but you can't do that. all you can hope is that you are a good influence on them and they decide to make that change on their own.
hangoutsoonplease!!!
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Really though, people need to realize all of the above. And the whole age thing bothers me. Like when people say, "I don't want to get married until 28."
But you can't predict what age the love of your life will come along.
Ohhh people.
LOVEYOU!
p.s. sorry for oversleeping today :(
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it's ok girl. next time i kill you though!
LOVEYOU
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the comment regarding sex being carnal rather than this romanticized ideal girls have today. of course it is romantic, well most of the time i hope!, but for some reason referring to it as it really is has become taboo for some reason. sometimes if you're lucky it's like a scene in a movie, and sometimes if you're lucky in a completely different way it won't be hahaha. ifff you know what i mean!
also, i agree with your statement on how relationships aren't meant to provide endless entertainment and happiness. i don't think i've ever doubted that, but i don't think i have ever actually thought about it. it's an interesting thought.
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and hahaha, yes i know what you mean ;)
I thought about that a lot. Like how people get bored with each other. I personally get bored with myself a lot. but if people can get bored with themselves, how can they expect someone to be eternally exciting and fun? Nobody is capable of that, or something. People set their standards too high.
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