.... and then I'm like, whoah, wait, this is a lot to take in. Yeah, it is really hard to stay friends with people for many years when you're still in that "growing" stage, and they're still in that growing stage, and people just grow in different directions. Or, you're the one who's trying to evolve, and they're really not.
I've found that, oddly enough, it's oftentimes easier to trust people who aren't that close to you. It seems like the ones that don't have an emotional or social stake in your life are often the best listeners, and often have the most thoughtful advice. For some reason I'm picturing a bartender having to listen to his customers' life problems while he cleans beer glasses.....
Post more often if you can, hey, you've got at least one friend here who will listen. :-)
thanks!! I really do love livejournal, but then I just get so overwhelmed with everything, I forget it's there. I really should try to post more though, because it's a good place to vent- went back and read some of your entires, yet hard to keep it all together and coherent because I WAS reading backwards- but hopefulyl everything worked out at work and that was resolved- would comment on your love life, but I am utterly confused :) However, I am also confused that you commented when your LJ says you're "not here"- are you really not here??
Friends are definately a complicated issue when it comes to moving away- and now i have no plans of going back to Brampton for the summer- one reason being I don't want to see her, and the other being i don't want to see that guy from when I was 5- actualyl makes me physically sick. But ah well- I will do my best to heed your advice and post more- as well as read yours IN ORDER so as not to be so confused when I am checking in :)
i'm reading my friends page every so often but right now i'm focused much more on getting everything sorted out with my new life. i'll be back into the swing of things here before long.
we really ought to get together for lunch or a drink or something. i can't promise to dispel any confusion about my crazy life, hahaha, but it'd be fun.
love life is pretty simple these days, thankfully... there is one girl, she is great, and she lives about an hour away from here. :)
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.... and then I'm like, whoah, wait, this is a lot to take in. Yeah, it is really hard to stay friends with people for many years when you're still in that "growing" stage, and they're still in that growing stage, and people just grow in different directions. Or, you're the one who's trying to evolve, and they're really not.
I've found that, oddly enough, it's oftentimes easier to trust people who aren't that close to you. It seems like the ones that don't have an emotional or social stake in your life are often the best listeners, and often have the most thoughtful advice. For some reason I'm picturing a bartender having to listen to his customers' life problems while he cleans beer glasses.....
Post more often if you can, hey, you've got at least one friend here who will listen. :-)
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Friends are definately a complicated issue when it comes to moving away- and now i have no plans of going back to Brampton for the summer- one reason being I don't want to see her, and the other being i don't want to see that guy from when I was 5- actualyl makes me physically sick. But ah well- I will do my best to heed your advice and post more- as well as read yours IN ORDER so as not to be so confused when I am checking in :)
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we really ought to get together for lunch or a drink or something. i can't promise to dispel any confusion about my crazy life, hahaha, but it'd be fun.
love life is pretty simple these days, thankfully... there is one girl, she is great, and she lives about an hour away from here. :)
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