Comments | lavivaloca: life goes on easy

lavivaloca

life goes on easy

Aug 16, 2005 15:42

Would you be with the person you love or with the person who love you more ?

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ladytrippin August 16 2005, 15:05:40 UTC

Between these 2 options, definitely go with someone who loves me more.

frosted August 16 2005, 16:11:33 UTC

yeah after going thru both i'd rather choose the latter now.

lavivaloca August 16 2005, 16:31:05 UTC

I'd want to be with the someone I love. and suffer. hahaha !

seow_boon August 16 2005, 18:27:23 UTC

Yeah, i'd rather suffer and choose someone i love. Somehow it seems better.

lavivaloca August 17 2005, 09:45:55 UTC

What horoscope are u? hhaha

seow_boon August 17 2005, 16:22:49 UTC

Sagittarius, born in nov...

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manandboy August 16 2005, 17:47:54 UTC

always the case of the former for me, but its the latter i so seek.

miyoku August 17 2005, 04:38:39 UTC

I just recently ended a relationship where the latter is concerned and it was awful. I don't think it would be fair to either party if the feelings aren't mutual to the same degree of feelings for eachother. Also was involved with someone where the former was concerned and it hurt just as bad. So I'd choose neither.If its not the same and equal for both,then I don't want to be with that person/him to be with me.

lavivaloca August 17 2005, 09:44:53 UTC

hey i feel the same too... it would be really unfair to either party if the feeling arent to the same degree. But its kinda sad to know that, at times people tend to be selfish and protect themselves when this matter is concern. Having someone who love you more, also mean easier time when breakup ? lol.

miyoku August 17 2005, 14:35:34 UTC

Ya it is sad. Admittedly(sp?) for awhile I enjoyed having someone love me just a bit more than I loved them. It felt good because he treated me really really well. Early in the relationship though my conscience was eating away at me and my heart told me I'm not feeling 100% the same so I had to leave him. I know I did the right thing and we'll both find someone whom we love/they love us equally someday.

Having someone who love you more, also mean easier time when breakup ? lol. In my case hehe,sadly no. I found it harder. It hurt immensely watching someone's heart break knowing you're the one who's breaking it.Ok I'll stop now before this gets depressing. :p

lavivaloca August 19 2005, 09:56:08 UTC

What you said are so true Rina. My conscience was eating me away too... it wasnt good feeling.
watching someone's heart break knowing you're the one who's breaking it .... sigh sigh sigh! it's really getting very depressing. haha

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