i came across your journal by Travis's. sorry if it's friends only i was just bored. let me know if you don't want me to comment. although i don't know you, i hate to see anyone upset. it is very hard to have a long distance relationship. but i believe that everything happens for a reason & all will work out in the end. especially if your love is strong. it may be hard right now but it will get better. & i know that doesn't make you feel any better right now but it will only make you feel worse if you spend all your time worrying & you'll overlook the good stuff. well, i've rambled a lot more than i intended. hope it works out for you soon.
i dont mind at all for you to comment, i welcome the advice! =) i keep telling myself that everything does happen for a reason and that it will all work out in the end. i know that thru all those times we didn't think we could make things work....we actually did make them work and that our love is stronger now than ever. when i get upset i need to get in the habit to stop and think before i say things. and yes, i worry waaaaay too much!! and this "i know that doesn't make you feel any better right now but it will only make you feel worse if you spend all your time worrying & you'll overlook the good stuff" it's sooo true!!! that has really opened my eyes, i have been overlooking the good stuff, just because i was too concerned about the bad things. THANK YOU!! i definatly needed a reality check on things. thanks soo much for your advice and commenting!!
its totally understandable. You're crazy about the guy. Its not psycho. Us women are emotional a lot of the time, i'm overlysensitive myself...but i try to ease up and not be too serious. Guys have bad days, like everyone else does. You just gotta take that into consideration, you know what I mean? Just dont think "man he doesnt wanna see me" and all that..cause i'm 100% positive he DID wanna see you. Its cause he had a bad day and so he figured he prolly wouldnt be any fun. Plus he coulda took his bad day out on you. You're in love so of course you think you need 'em too much!!! Dont overthink things, even though its hard not to! If you need anything, lemme know =)
oh yes, he tells me i need to lighten up and take it easy on him. which i am trying to do, but sometimes i say things i know i shouldn't like when he's had a bad day. i need to quit thinking soo much about myself when he has days like yesterday. everything you said is TRUE!!! i have to get out of this mind set im in with him and be an adult about it. i am overlysensitive too, esp around that time.....he has a hard time with that too. because i can be fine one minute and the next im crying ya know. lol i dont know if there are any way to control my emotions then. i have alot to work on, being a better girlfriend!! =) THANKS soooo sooo much for your advice Tina!
i feel for ya, i really do. when joe was in the police academy, i hardly got to see him. he would get back here around 7 or 8 on friday & i ALWAYS had to work saturday (usually middle shift), & then he would have to leave by like 2 on sunday. that was very hard. i cried alot too. and i still do. his shifts now are better than they were at the sheriff's dept., but he works 12 hour shifts...so on the days he does works, it's like i don't see him at all. he has to sleep the whole time in-between shifts. i'm soooo addicted to my husband....i can't help it. LOL! but things will get better....especially, when you get moved. you have the freedom to do what u want then. it will be so much easier on ur relationship.
thanks lisa! i keep telling myself that once i move out it will all be okay, but i dont see that happening anytime soon. i mean i make okay money but not enough to support myself since i have a car and insurance payment, but too much for an income based place ya know. i just have to be 'big' and strong. lol =)
no, i sure haven't.....but i make $500 every two weeks at work...how do they figure up how much you pay??? im just scared i wont be able to make it. lol
no i haven't talked to her in about a month....i just see her every now and then in wal mart. oh my, what's going on with daniel?! last time i talked her everything was okay. =\
I know exactly what you're talking about. Me and Randy lived 4 hours away! Sometimes a month would go by before I would see him again. It's very hard.. and I acted the same way you did when he wouldn't come see me.. so it's okay...Me and Randy had some hard times but we work thru them. and so will you and mitch if yall love each other as much as you say you do! Believe me it will all work out! :)
omg, i couldn't imagine living with my parents just after being married.....what a mess it would be! lol i agree it's part of the sacrafices you make, to be happy in the long run. patience is definatly something i need to work on, im the kind of person that wanted it yesterday....yea im that bad. lol so i know what it takes to make a relationship work, but getting thru that process is the hard part. this is my first real relationship, so 2 years into it, im still learning. im glad it all worked out for you two! Thanks!
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although i don't know you, i hate to see anyone upset. it is very hard
to have a long distance relationship. but i believe that everything happens for a reason & all will work out in the end. especially if your love is strong. it may be hard right now but it will get better.
& i know that doesn't make you feel any better right now but it will only make you feel worse if you spend all your time worrying & you'll overlook the good stuff. well, i've rambled a lot more than i intended. hope it works out for you soon.
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i keep telling myself that once i move out it will all be okay, but i dont see that happening anytime soon. i mean i make okay money but not enough to support myself since i have a car and insurance payment, but too much for an income based place ya know. i just have to be 'big' and strong. lol =)
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have u talked to beth? i'm so worried about her.....did she tell u about daniel?
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no i haven't talked to her in about a month....i just see her every now and then in wal mart. oh my, what's going on with daniel?! last time i talked her everything was okay. =\
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Me and Randy lived 4 hours away! Sometimes a month would go by before I would see him again. It's very hard.. and I acted the same way you did when he wouldn't come see me.. so it's okay...Me and Randy had some hard times but we work thru them. and so will you and mitch if yall love each other as much as you say you do! Believe me it will all work out! :)
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thanks girl!
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i agree it's part of the sacrafices you make, to be happy in the long run. patience is definatly something i need to work on, im the kind of person that wanted it yesterday....yea im that bad. lol so i know what it takes to make a relationship work, but getting thru that process is the hard part. this is my first real relationship, so 2 years into it, im still learning.
im glad it all worked out for you two! Thanks!
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