BIG FAT STOOPID FIGHT WITH GF....FEEL LIKE SHITE...SHE IS SHOPPING AND HUNG UP ON ME....GOING MAD WAITING ON HER TO COME HOME.....DON'T WANT TO CRY ANYMORE....LIFE IS POOH!!
*big hugs* I know it all feels like poop now but you love each other and you will get through it. Phones are pants for arguing - it'll be better irl. *more hugs* and good luck with sorting things when she gets back.
Thanks guys, I think we got it sorted...it's kind of related to lots of other things that seem to be bubbling under the surface. Sometimes getting her to talk is like getting blood out of a stone...I always want to air everything out in the heat of the moment whereas she wants to wait and cool down before she talks about it. The problem with that is that once she has calmed down, the anger is gone and she won't talk about the problems truthfully. It's like she wants to forget the fight ever happened...which I don't feel is healthy because everything gets bottled up and then 6 months from now it all explodes in a HUGE fight!
Will keep at her to talk about it so she can move on and find solutions to what is bothering her. Cheers for advice and support
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I know it all feels like poop now but you love each other and you will get through it. Phones are pants for arguing - it'll be better irl.
*more hugs* and good luck with sorting things when she gets back.
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hang in therre mate - I'm sure you can sort it out - retail therapy does wonders
hugs to you both
Ze
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and a small bit of advice - be very happy & excited over EVERYTHING she bought.
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Will keep at her to talk about it so she can move on and find solutions to what is bothering her. Cheers for advice and support
xo :)
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