Someone shoot me it's an emoranting night

[leastconcern]

I let the shit my mother say get to me, a lot. Especially about how I look, dress, and have "inappropriate" hair like under my arms

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[sensorium]

*hug* :( That doesn't sound needy at all to me, that sounds normal.

sorry to intrude

[3ambitions]

I hope you don't mind as I don't even know you and found your journal by coincidence but when I read it I justed to say something nice and cheer you up because we've all felt that way at somepoint and it's nice to know it doesn't last forever.
Don't worry about being zen,just be yourself because thats the person you want people to fall for. Every relationship is a step closer to a bigger,better,brighter one (man that is cheesy but it IS true because you learn alot of things from every relationship which aid you in the next) so don't beat yourself up or let what people say get to you and just keep trying because I'm sure your an amazing person just as you are.
Hope 2010 gets better for you and sorry to bother you.

[teal_cuttlefish]

I have "inappropriate hair" too. I don't shave my armpits or my legs, and have described myself as "a hairy-legged feminist" before. Hair differs by culture, and even Julia Roberts has been photographed with underarm hair, though it stirred stuff up up in the press pretty good.

Plus, guys don't shave below the neck most of the time anyway!

I can send you hugs and love from here, but that's not exactly what you're looking for, I suspect,